Lets face it, I'm no longer a kid and the days of running around non-stop are long gone. I have responsibilities today that weren't there thirty years ago. That said, I have limited funds to spend on non-essentials. If that makes me financially 'un'secure then so be it. At this point in time my priority is paying off my house, not going to dinner, traveling the world or driving a new car off the showroom floor. I'm just not that materialistic. I do enjoy home-ownership and working on my house. It's therapeutic to me. I am not a couch potato. I like being physically active and go to the gym regularly. I do however like watching auto racing. Honesty is a character trait I place a high value on. Drug usage is not an option for me. I have no desire or need for less than ideal people in my life. Although my wardrobe would best be described as casual I do try to always look my best. If I'm not physically attracted towards someone then I won't be interested. I'm not naive, I realize no one is going to want to jump into bed with me either, but looks are important to me. I will never be a world traveler and even though CA has a lot to offer, there really aren't a whole lot of places in this state I care to see. I'm just hoping to find someone for a friendship.