Hi, my name is Shasi,this is my first time on a dating line. I HAVE BETTER PICS N MY CELL!!! I'VE TRIED TO PUT UP MORE BUT THE SYSTEM STATES ERROR, Note:POF is not download on my cell~just pc is utilized,so if a msg is left~ I prefer more than 1-3 words stated... ANYW...I'm a thick 41 yr old African American lady,single for a minute now, by choice-I'm a believer in god and I feel he will send the right man for me this year. I am originally from South Carolina (raised on the farm-a country gurl:-},now reside in Bklyn-with NYCity style. I enjoy times spent with my only child/18yr old son (when he's not busy at college,or football practice. This caring "Scorpio",love to laugh(it's good for the heart), interesting conversation-(which is best in any relationship),cooking mainly soul food & baking good tasty desserts that's liked by many, i.e Shas!Sweet Lemon YumYum Cake,Chocolate Pecan/Almond Delight Cake,Banana'berry'good Pudding,Peach-Unique-Cake,Oreo Cream Pie,Fried Icecream,I love u choclate chip cookie etc... I also like to draw-usually I can draw whatever I c, and writting sayings/poems that comes to mind. I enjoy mellow days staying in sometimes, spring/summer nights seeing the sights and anytime doing fun things. I don't go to clubs but may decide to feel a lounge out once in a while-not on a regular. I do not mind taking a man out sometime and do for him, If I am getting the same good treatment back. I can be a very loving, passionate & romantic female if I prefer to be-depending on how he's treating me. I believe in a happy, healthy & fun relationship where no one is being taken for granted, affection is frequent and reciprocated. U must be good hearted and respectful! Keep it real with me!!! or Keep it moving!!!
I WANT YOUR ACTIONS TO PROVE WHO YOU ARE~TO ME, NOT YOUR WORDS~ BECAUSE IT ONLY PROVE WHO YOU WANT TO BE!!!
I'm not a controlling female. I don't try to change or mold a man. I'm considerate,compromising & sometime comical. I am unique in various ways,from what I like & like to do/make,(when I'm not at my 10a-6p job) I make chocolate lollipops/candy of one's choice,for all occasion,costume jewelry, baby shower/party favors,greeting cards etc,..great concepts of my god given talent. I'm usually as laid back as my soft sounding voice,& the R&B & gospel music I mainly listen too.I'm triple D'- D(rug),D(esease),& D(rama) free. I never smoke nor drink-don't knock who ever do-but I no too much aint good for u. I know how to treat a -deserving- man good, I like to keep it real and make it right. I'm seeking a man that is respectful bec that is #1 key,and who will make time for me. I dislike****, conceit men-but being confident is cool, it's one thing to disagree at times but being argumentative all the time is too much energy being wasted-which is not a beautiful thang. The same effort I put into my profile is the same type of exuberance you can expect if we meet. I will not waste my time nor settle, life is to short.I'm very focus and can tell a liar/loser from a few conversations and actions.I don't want a man that is overly jealous,who put me down bec he's unhappy or insecure, nor one that holds on to his past relationships,(I'm not that way).--I'm NOT! on this line seeking men who just want an intimate encounter/sex from me-so don't be fooled by my photos shown or holla at me if that's ALL your seeking...
I need a man that's looking for 1 female not several--I do not do competitions...I'M INTERESTED IN 1 MAN TO LOVE ALOT OF DIFFERENT WAYZ--INSTEAD OF ALOT OF DIFFERENT MEN, TO LOVE 1 WAY.
Some MEN don't notice a GOOD woman~~LIKE MYSELF!~~ be4 him, because he's to busy FISH'N 4 the BAD one(s)...Smh!
*R U THAT BAD SHARK, THAT PASS BY THE FRESH SALMON TO SEEK OUT THEM FUNKY FISHES??? LOL!