Mensa_NOT__: All that's missing is you
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Clayton, California
66 year old Female, 5' 6" (168cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Scorpio
Mensa_NOT__ is actively seeking a relationship.
Some University
Hopeless Romantic
Happily Retired

Dec 2012 Rome to Rio cruise

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Widowed Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Blond(e) Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets No Pets  

About Me
NOTE: I've changed my mail settings... they were inadvertently set to prevent non-upgraded members from contact. I hope you'll try again if interested. My apologies.

I’m searching for that so-far elusive connection... spiritual, emotional, intellectual, and physical. I've been looking for you a good long while, neither confident I'll find you... nor willing to give up. Honesty and integrity are values I live by, and appreciate in those close to me.

I am a pretty simple woman, with simple wants and needs. I have "enough"; just looking for someone with whom to enjoy it all. I've been widowed from the heart-of-my-heart for a good long while, and took the time to heal fully. I'm in a good place emotionally.

My likes and interests: Local concerts, art and wine festivals, travel, entertaining, political discourse (I'm conservative), some sports (Go Giants!), architecture, design, making a house a home, gardening (veggie garden, too), swimming, scenic drives, road trips, movies that make me think (i.e., Sideways; I'll See You In My Dreams), and especially anything on, in or near water (it's where I'm most at peace).

I'm a bit adventurous: if it's legal, ethical and sounds like fun, I'll probably try it... maybe twice! I prefer outdoors to in. My golf is good for... not much; but I enjoy playing anyway - lol. Close friends and family mean the world to me. I attend church (a non-issue if you don't), volunteer monthly preparing homeless shelter meals, enjoy a book club and Trivial Pursuit dinner group (more social than brainiacs... although there are a few of those in the group lol), dressing for the occasion, but need and enjoy down time as well. I'm sometimes elegant; sometimes tomboy - comfortable with both. An occasional cigarette is my only vice... well, that and lying about my vices :~). I'm healthy, happy, playful, sincere, sensitive, very much a one-man woman, and blessed beyond measure to be financially secure. I have a very good life, enough "things", but I miss being half of a fun, loving, committed couple where trust and communication are paramount.

I'm looking for the one man who matters to me as much as I matter to him, who appreciates being at ease with one another. Things will unfold as they're meant to. I won't settle; neither will you.

If you've read this far and something resonates, send a smoke signal. I'm looking for you, too.

First Date
Something simple with a bit of ambiance.

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Age between 55 and 73.
Live in United States