I like: beer, sports (on tv), camping, anything in the water, thongs (the shoe kind), embarrassing my kids (they're teenagers now so this is especially fun), hanging with friends, innuendo laced banter, driving with the radio playing so loud that I can barely hear myself singing at the top of my lungs, savoring really good food, lighthearted debate, a flirtatious smile, laughter, engaging conversation, getting away to decompress, and truth, always the truth and nothing but the truth.
I believe in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas eve and I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days... I got a little off track there. ;-)
I am getting laugh lines on my face but I don't care because it means that I laugh a lot.
After years of picking my body apart I am finally comfortable in my own skin.
I have become resilient. I have been through some stuff and come out the other side. I know how to handle gnarly situations and am there for others when they need me.
I remember to tell people I Iove them. I've lost loved ones so I know the importance of telling people what they mean to me.
Being cool is not important. Therefore I am the coolest I've ever been.
I take the time to take in sunsets and sunrises, I accept compliments without countering. I realize that most of the time I have more choices than I think I do and I will no longer be the victim of circumstances that I have the power to change.
I think being me, right now, is awesome. And others notice that.
I have a good job that I love, I have my own house, car and generally keep myself busy. I am a bit of a nerd at heart and in the months of October, November, February and March you can find me at a renaissance faire.
What I'm looking for is someone that can engage me in conversation, Silly or serious, light-hearted or deep, off the wall or intellectual. I'm very attracted to confident, funny and intelligent men so if you're one or all of those send me a message.