I like to have a good time but not into the bar scene.
Winter time: Watch movies, play with electronics, go out to dinner, stay warm.
Summer time: Play in the sun, get a tan, cook out, sit in the hot tub, 4 wheelers, motorcross bikes, boating, skiiing, having fun.
Like to hang out with friends and family.
First date I think of as more of a planned event. One where I would like to plan it around the person I would be going with.
For an initial meeting I think Starbucks, the food court at the mall, small restaurant or fast food restaurant are good meeting locations.