I am looking for a friend first. Any relationship should start out that way. And if things, go the right way, then we can take the next step. Because, when some people tend to rush into things,they hardly ever work out. That's why it's always good to take things slow. But not too slow.(LOL) Especially, if you are planning on being with that person long term. I enjoy sports.(Football & Basketball) I love listening to r&b, hip hop, reggae, neo-soul, gospel, jazz, and old school. Plus, I love spending quality time with family and that special someone. Please leave the negative issues that you have had in past relationships in the past. Every woman is different. Even though, that person may have treated you or did you wrong. Doesn't mean the next one will.