I have been thinking, & I know what I want. I want someone to kiss under the mistletoe. I want someone to kiss at midnight on New Year's Eve. I want someone who's not afraid to be seen in public with me. I want long walks in the park holding hands. I want my hair played with. I want to cuddle on the couch watching a movie. I want to go dancing. I want to go somewhere, & have someone to go with. I miss being in love.
What I DON'T want is to be somebody's "side dish." I'm okay not being your only, as long as everyone involved is aware. If we have to sneak, I'm not interested.
We all have baggage. The trick is finding someone willing to help you unpack. Or help carry it. Or help put it up on a closet shelf.
We should email each other, and if we hit it off online, then we should meet. Neutral Ground, casual atmosphere.... Meet for coffee? Walk in the park? Easy to go our separate ways if we DON'T end up connecting. If we do, great. And maybe we'll connect as friends, just no sparks. That's fine too. I can always use more friends!
Now, for the important stuff: I love to dance, swim, read, and play on the computer. I'm not very outdoorsy, but I love the sunshine. My second favorite place to be, after a lounge chair by the pool, is in the kitchen, creating masterpieces. Lasagna? Rum Cake? Cookies? What's your favorite?
I have a bizarre sense of humor, and if you can't make me laugh, it's not going to work. When browsing profiles and sending messages, I'm more likely to respond to someone who makes me laugh. Don't get me wrong, I can be serious, but I'd rather be silly.