I have one son who is the light of my life and comes first. I would like to find someone to fill an emptiness in my heart. I would love the person to be real, want something more than sex and not into games! I love football and DA BEARS are my team. No one messes with me during football season lol. Just had weightloss surgery so would like someone who can appreciate me now and when i lose the weight! so far 104 pounds! I am looking for someone who wants to be healthy too, im saying if your 300 to 400 pounds, dring tons of soda and eat all the time without working out, it probably wont work out with me. If you wanna know more please ask. Also if I dont respond back to you im not interested.