As for me, I love to go out and do things, be active, party and have fun, but everything in moderation. Staying at home playing a game, watching a movie, whatever can be just as satisfying as hiking or riding roller coasters or dancing at clubs. The trick is to always mix it up. I’d love to find someone who I can really talk to and get deep with. Someone I can learn from and who can learn from me. A woman that can genuinely make me laugh is hard to find, but I know she’s out there. And no drama please. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Just be mellow, kid. Life is hard enough. You want to find that someone who will kill themselves to make your life better, and vice versa. Your strongest ally. Your closest confidant. Your “back-gotter.”
As I said before, I’m up for anything. I don’t have one specific great passion that always consumes my life and time. I like to experience everything, and doing those things with someone cool is the best. And speaking of cool, I think you’ve found the right person if they think you’re the coolest human in the world, and you think the same of them. Not the sexiest, or the smartest, or the most interesting…the coolest. You look at them and just think, “Damn…they’re so cool.” You find someone like that grab hold and don’t let go. For real, for real.
Again, I’m looking for that best friend. That perfect teammate. Partner in crime. Dynamic Duo. You know what I mean. A person I can kick ass with, dance a waltz with, travel with, high-five with, play games with, learn with, grow with, be admired by other couples with, have inside jokes with, have outside jokes with, attack life with, feel safe with, feel confident with, feel honored to be with, and have the best most amazing sweat-drenched heart-pounding loud-screaming bed-breaking neighbor-disturbing sex with…and then get up and go have a bacon-cheeseburger with.
My favorite movie is True Romance, not just because it’s great writing and great direction and great characters and great acting…because of the incredibly epic love and passion between the two main characters. One of my favorite lines in the movie is, “When I’m with you, then I’m with you and I don’t want anybody else.” That not only suggests true loyalty and commitment but also complete love and admiration. Even more so, it’s an infatuation. A crazy obsession with that person. You can’t get enough of them. They’re like you’re drug and you’re hopelessly addicted and you like it and hope you get your fix of them every day for the rest of your life. So much so that you’d gladly die of an overdose of them. I know it’s only a movie, but I believe that kind of love exists. And not just love, it’s romance. Everything you do and say that keeps that love burning. You are hot for each other in every way…emotionally, mentally, physically, EVERY WAY. You would destroy mountains for them. You would endure endless painful torture for them. You’d listen to Kenny G for them.
Anyway, that’s how I see it. If you agree we should definitely talk.
A few quick facts about me:
-I am extremely chivalrous, respectful, thoughtful and have a romantic side (a boy scout with an edge).
-I’m fairly attractive, work out, decent body, good hygiene, never bad breath, etc.
-I am educated and can carry a deep conversation. In fact, I expect you to reciprocate.
-I have a successful career, I own my house, car and motorcycle and have ZERO debt.
-I believe in compromise and never like to go to bed angry.
-I’m direct and will tell you my feelings.
Wanna know more? Just ask.
NO MOVIES ON THE FIRST DATE. That's one of my laws. A jazz club or outdoor concert or pool hall. Basically, a place that has a cool group of people and a nice ambiance but isn't too loud or crowded to interfere with our talk. Drinks and dinner, of course. Hopefully, what I suggest we do on our date will be new to the girl I'm with which will make an impression and be a new experience.