If your initial message consists only of hi or hey, I won't respond. That's a generic approach.
I like to see live music, I am a music freak in general & am all over the board regarding my musical taste. I can swing fron the Deftones to Jeff Buckley in one sitting. All genres of music touch me on some level.
I like to play tennis, practice guitar, hike, swim, workout, shoot pool, bowl & travel whenever my schedule permits.
I am not a fan of drama and like to keep things simple, honest and fun. You never have to guess what I am thinking because if I am thinking it, it usually crosses my lips. I am very confident and secure with who and what I am. I am a self sufficient and am looking for a man who will appreciate a strong woman.
I think meeting for a drink is always a good first date. If you vibe well you get great conversation, hopefully some laughs & maybe pool or darts. If the chemisty is non existent you can just exchange a freindly goodbye.