Let me start by saying I don't even know what I want on here lol. Looking for friends mostly. You can never have too many of those and they come and go too quickly in life. I, ideally, would love a relationship. However I am the type that believes everything happens for a reason and in due time when it is meant to. I'm not looking for someone to support me or spoil me. I am fine by myself. The perfect man to me would enhance my life. I don't care about looks. How you make me feel trumps anything. You could have one leg and three eyes and if you treat me good then I'm happy. Far too many guys don't get it. I'm seeking a real man. I am open to talking to people who aren't near me. I love to travel so I could always come visit. Plus getting to know each other over phone/text can be half the fun.
Looking for a man and if you don't know what I mean by that.. here....
1-A man knows what he wants, and goes for it. A boy may have somewhat of an idea, but not really. He doesn’t think too much about it, and even if he does, doesn’t exert much effort to get it. A boy is passive, a man is assertive.
2-A man plans for his future and is working towards building a foundation and infrastructure in order to have a family (at some point in his life). A boy lives only in the moment and his plans are mostly around which bar he’s going to hit up on the weekend.
3-A man looks for a woman with intelligence, who is supportive, grounded and encompasses a shared set of values when choosing a partner. A boy cares mostly only for girls who are hot, wild and exciting.
4-A man knows a good woman when he meets one and will take initiative to get to know her. A boy may make an attempt if you’re lucky, but gives up before ever really trying.
5-A man has the courage to have uncomfortable conversations. He is honest with his intentions and lets people know where they stand. A boy avoids. He ignores confrontation or any serious talks about feelings. Instead of dealing with a situation, he runs away from it or creates drama or excuses to mask the fact he’s not that into you or a relationship.
6-A man knows when to invest in a woman and jump in with two feet. A boy is always “testing” – he doesn’t fully commit because he never knows if he is quite ready. But the truth is, because he is a boy, regardless of who he meets, he will never be ready due to the stage of life he is in.
7-A man knows how to have a good time and be social, but is often busy making strides in his career and building his life. A boy is getting crunk with his buddies at the bar every weekend.
8-A man takes the time to reflect on the type of man he wants to be, the example he wants to leave and the vision for his life. He has put thought into his values. A boy has not established his moral compass or values and consequently, is often inconsistent.
9-A man has integrity. He means what he says, and says what he means. He has follow through and actions his promises. And if he can’t he has the guts to tell you why. A boy makes promises but doesn’t follow through.
10-A man is afraid of rejection but will put himself out there anyway. A boy is afraid of rejection and acts passive so that his pride and ego won’t ever get too banged up.
Now, a lot of these differences require taking the time to know someone to figure out if the apple of your eye is indeed a man, or a mere boy. However, one of the quickest filters that you can notice from the beginning is this:
11. A boy plays games. A man doesn’t.
A little about me..
*CRAY BUTTON!... bonus points if you know what that is.
*I'm a spur of the moment type girl.
*I LOVE to laugh. Like LOVE to. If you are funny, you might win me over fast.
*I say "lol" alot. Like TONS..lol...see? lol I cant stop myself!
*My favorite animal is the Penguin.
*I wear glasses, but most people don't know because I sport contacts most days.
*I love to sing. It used to be my passion, but now it's just for fun.
*My favorite flower is the Stargazer Lily.
*Even if its not romantic, Ill be your friend :)
*I trust you.. until you **** me over.
*While I am open to meeting someone, I am not seeking someone. I go with the flow and if it happens it happens, if not, oh well.
*I am a proud US Army Veteran.
*I have 1 piercing not counting ears and 4 1/2 tattoos and would like more.
*I love God. Whole heartedly.
*I'm not into the whole "chase" of dating. Either you like someone or you don't.
*My dog JJ is my baby. He's a chug.
*I am a Taurus and Gemini. Yes, I know, I rock.
*Honesty is a must when getting to know someone. Be honest if you don't see it going anywhere.
*I listen to all genres of music, a true lover of music doesn't limit themselves.
*I may be a big girl, lol, but I love the gym, and could out lift you any day.
*I've been told I can have a bit of an attitude, but I swear I am a lover not a fighter.
*I love to travel, and I would love to do it more.
If your looking for a booty call, or woman on the side-- its not me, sorry. I WILL NOT answer your message if you are rude, vulgar or talking like you're drunk. Well, you might get an answer out of me, but it wont be a nice one lol. Please be an adult, I'm not into games. You have to show some respect for youself in order to get my respect.
If you don't like my photos, or think they are too risque'... then dont message me. That is simple right? Don't send me messages calling me a whore... that will only get you blocked.. not only from me but from all other females on here that I know. I didnt come on here for you to be an ***hole and yell at me. You're not my daddy, and I dont need a new daddy. Thanks :)
If I sound interesting or like someone you would like to get to know better, please, feel free to send a message my way.
I would love to hear from you :)