I'm sure this will come off in a negative way, but I don't really care. If a woman doesn't understand that the following is true, then I'm not interested anyway.:) If you are willing to admit its true, then I would think you know I'm not exactly being negative. I'm just trying to help. A female friend of mine says guys complain to her all the time about the following and are shocked when she responds to them.
For those of you who expect a guy to write a quality attention grabbing message, at least respect their effort enough to respond.
If the man only writes a short message that just says "Hi" or whatever, its acceptable to not respond.
Men get tired of putting effort into things just to get ignored 9 out of 10 times. You would probably stop putting effort into it as well.
Statistically, the only thing on a man's profile that will determine if a woman will be interested is his picture. Everything else doesn't matter, except maybe a guys salary. Which is why there is very little about me, if you want to know about me, you are free to ask otherwise I assume you don't care to know.
If you're interested, send a message. If I'm interested, you can expect a simple message, I don't believe the quality of my message will determine whether you respond or not. Sorry, but its true.
Below is a quick summary of what I am looking for in a woman.
I am looking for a woman who can laugh with me when I'm being silly and stupid, who expects me to have flaws and be anything but perfect, and gives me more desire to be better every day.