What you see is what you get. I believe in speaking my mind, so you can say I'm blunt....sometimes TOO blunt for some people. NOR do I believe in talking in riddles. Say what you mean and mean whar you say....we're ALL ADULTS. I'm NOT the typical African American woman or woman you've ever dealt with. Yes, I am single, that's why I'm on the site. I am also very easy going, honest, open, laid back & sociable women. I also believe that in life, ALL THINGS IN LIFE HAPPEN FOR A REASON. I truly love life and believe in living life to the fullest. I give as good as I get. I work hard and play even harder. Attraction to me ISN'T solely based on looks. There are different ways a man, NOT MALE are/can/will be attractive in my mind/view. COMMUNICATION IS KEY....MEANING, I BELIEVE IN COMMUNICATION.
I am an auto racing enthusiast and have been for years. My taste in music is eclectic - depending on my mood at the time. I love almost everything from Country to Rock to Jazz to Classical. I tolerate very little Rap. My favorite would be 80's Pop & Soft Rock.
For my fun/entertainment I like to attend concerts, festivals, auto races, host dinner or dessert parties for my friends, hang out with my friends, water activities, read and travel - whether it be via road trips, train rides, flying or even on a bus short distances.
I'm looking for someone who's not into games, has goals and ambitions. A positive outlook on life is a must. We ALL have lived life and/or had previous relationships AND will bring parts of our past life/relationships into any new one. So, if you're down to earth, genuine, knows how to & will communicate openly and your interest is piqued in a chance of getting to know me and/or perhaps want to eventually meet me, take the initiative and be proactive...take a chance and send me message after using the "Meet Me" section. I guarantee you'll be surprised because I'm UNIQUE AND TRULY GENUINE!
PLEASE NOTE: I DATE INTERRACIALLY.
I'm NOT into this New Age Generation X way of dating IS NOT for me and I commend those over the age of 37 that have adapted to and embraced it...I'm old school and don't embrace it. I believe in a lil communication (beyond "Hello/Hey I'm _________" to confirm my intrest in and a chance to "feel out/trust my instincts of" someone before meeting them. I'm NOT talking about endless messages and/or phone calls but DON'T expect me to agree to meet you within 72 hours of our initial contact...I need to have an idea of you & yes I can tell from messages if we'd mesh well. Nor am I interested in anyone that wants to "hang-out." I'm not interested in the "Netflix and chilll" that most people have going on in today's time. Also, the first few meetings/dates WILL be in a public setting. I'm also NOT interested in a hook-up or FWB.....been there, done that and don't wanna go back to a situationship.
Also please be respectful when send a message, my name is Kimberly - NOT sweety, honey, baby, ma. Mark me as a favorite and send the message at a decent hour. I'm NOT a prude, but as a woman, this is disrespectful to me. If you have a daughter/sister/mother/niece on a site as this, WOULD YOU WANT her to receive AN "INITIAL INTRO" message from an unknown male at this time of night?
With the new way the "Meet Me" feature is set up, I am not a paid member and can no longer view your profile. So again, if you're truly interested, drop me a few lines.
Update: Im NOT that picky, but I do have my limits and preferences like YOU DO. So, please do not contact me if:
YOUR meet me section is blank or has very little for me to go on
YOU don't have a profile photo up. You contacted me and can see what I look like, why can't I see what you look like? Truthfully looks aren't at the top of my list in must haves as other things hold more importance to me. Plus, I know I'm not a size 6 barbie doll.
YOU have separated as your status. I respect the sanctity of marriage and in the eyes of God, the law AND MYSELF -YOU ARE STILL LEGALLY MARRIED.
U talk lik dis. I communicate in the English language I grew up with AND NOT this new age text slang. IE: U is not YOU, U standing alone/by itself is a letter, in fact it's the 21st letter in the English alphabet.
You have your middle finger up or you're kneeling down/squatting in your pics.
You feel the need to ask me repetitive questions.