What you see is what you get. I believe in speaking my mind, so you can say I'm blunt....sometimes TOO blunt for some people. I'm NOT the typical African American woman. I am very easy going, honest, open, laid back & sociable women. I also believe that in life, ALL THINGS IN LIFE HAPPEN FOR A REASON. I truly love life and believe in living life to the fullest. I give as good as I get. I work hard and play even harder.
I am an auto racing enthusiast and have been for years. My taste in music is eclectic - depending on my mood at the time. I love almost everything from Country to Rock to Jazz to Classical. I tolerate very little Rap. My favorite would be 80's Pop & Soft Rock.
I'm looking for someone who's not into games, has goals and ambitions. A positive outlook on life is a must. We ALL have lived life and/or had previous relationships AND will bring parts of our past life/relationships into any new one. So, if you're down to earth, genuine, and your interest is piqued in a chance of getting to know me and/or perhaps want to eventually meet me, take the initiative and be proactive...take a chance and send me message after using the "Meet Me" section. I guarantee you'll be surprised because I'm UNIQUE AND TRULY GENUINE!
I'm NOT into this New Age Generation X way of dating IS NOT for me and I commend those over the age of 37 that have adapted to and embraced it. I'm old school and don't embrace it. I believe in a lil communication (beyond "Hello/Hey I'm _________" to confirm my intrest in and a chance to "feel out/trust my instincts of" someone before meeting them. I'm NOT talking about endless messages and/or phone calls but DON'T expect me to agree to meet you within 72 hours of our initial contact. Also first few meetings/dates WILL be in a public setting. I'm also NOT interested in a hook-up or FWB.....been there, done that and don't wanna go back to a situationship.
Also please be respectful when you send me a message. YOU DON'T KNOW ME...so please don't send me an initial message after midnight CST AND DON'T EXPECT A POSITIVE RESPONSE IF YOU SEND ONE AFTER 2AM. I live by the adage my parents raised me with of...AIN'T NOTHING OPEN AFTER 2AM BUT BARS, CLUBS, HOSPITALS & LEGS. Mark me as a favorite and send the message at a decent hour. I'm NOT a prude, but as a woman, this is disrespectful to me. If you have a daughter/sister/mother/niece on a site as this, WOULD YOU WANT her to receive AN "INITIAL INTRO" message from an unknown male at this time of night?