Have done a little updating. Figured it was time. But I still consider myself a ....
B****....a Beautiful Individual That Can Handle anything.
I am really just me. Nothing special. No Nobel prizes. Not a lottery winner. Not even a published author. Just the girl next door all grown up. You know the one you thought was cute, but never gave a second look at. The one that was always everyone's friend. Yep, that's me. But, see you only saw me as the girl next door. Turns out I am a warm, loving woman who has passion and compassion. I have a big heart and love that I would like to share with someone. My personality sells itself. I have been told I am a great person. If I am so great, why am I still on this site? Good question. I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind laughing at himself or me when we do something foolish, has a sense of direction and a little adventure hidden in him.
I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model but I'm me. I eat food. I have curves. I have more fat than I should. I have scars because I have a history. Some people love me, some like me. I have done good. I have done bad. I love my family and friends. I go without make up and sometimes I don't do my hair. I'm random and crazy. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am, you can love me or not. I won't change!! And if I love you I do it with all my heart!! I make no apologies for the way I am.
I'm not perfect, will never claim to be, but I'm worth it! NO that is not arrogance, that's confidence. And guys, sexy isn't a size 4. It's an attitude and I have it. Would like to find someone who likes and respects me for who I am not what I look like. Just as I would him. A man who is willing to work with me with words and actions as I continue to be the best person I can be. Just remember everyone's looks change with time, but a heart felt connection CAN last an eternity.
Although there is a list of likes/activities. Many things may be enjoyable if done with another person. Don't care to sky dive, but would gladly meet you on the ground with a big hug when you land. Some of the things I enjoy are camping, hiking, sunshine, beaches, swimming, canoeing, horseback riding, weekend get-a-ways or even day trips, live music, outdoor festivals, antiques, and sports. And yes I really like sports. Not just saying that to get your attention.
Movies on rainy or snowy days are a favorite. Good reason to snuggle up on the couch. I'll even watch an action flick with interest. Prefer a good comedy (they seem more like neutral territory). Can handle almost all types of music...never got into opera. Oh and rap..can't stand most of it.
What you read is me today, it may change tomorrow, but there are no secrets. Can't get to know someone if you're not willing to communicate. Curiosity is a good thing.
It made me pick a word. "intellectual" seems to fit me the best.
Gentlemen, please don't be afraid to say hello. And I am not at the top of the tree....but your gonna have to climb up a little to find me.
-----------are like apples------
-------on trees. The best ones-----
-----are at the top of the tree.-----
---The Men don’t want to reach for---
-- the good ones because they are----
--afraid of falling and getting hurt.-
-Instead, they get the rotten apples-
-from the ground that aren’t as good,
-but easy. So the apples up top think
-something's wrong w/ them when in
--reality they're amazing. They just--
---have to wait for the right Man to
---- come along, the one who's-
----------- brave enough to-----
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