Please...if I contact you and you are not interested, a polite "I'm not interested" reply would be appreciated. I know that I may not be everyone's ideal woman; just as every man who contacts me is not my ideal man; its just common courtesy.
I have my own place and vehicle. I work for everything I have and want; alot. I do not watch or participate in sports, hunting, fishing, or camping.
My personality traits: Motivated, passionate, stubborn, fun, mature (most times), intelligent, honest, trustworthy, open-minded, reliable, organized, patient, kind, considerate, understanding, courteous, responsible, compatible, loyal, enthusiastic, hard headed, opinionated, independent, strong, romantic, nurturing, ethical, ambitious, capable, fair and a realist.
What am I looking for in a man? First and foremost NO DRUGS or heavy drinking! Occasional drinking and a smoker are ok. If you need a six pack every day after working, then move on. While I like to have fun and go out, I am by no stretch of the imagination a big partier. You shouldn’t be either.
I would only be interested in someone that is financially independent. That doesn’t mean you have to have or come from money, it means you take care of yourself and have a place to live and have a vehicle.
Ambitious: I know what I want out of my life, and hope that you would too. I support my man in every way I can so that he can become everything he wants to be (too Army for you?). Responsible and Mature: While this can go hand in hand with ambitious, it also means you have the capacity to work towards what you want and can make the choices necessary to achieve them.
You have to like children. If you are looking to have children, please know that my child bearing years are behind me. While I would love to practice with the man I am with, realize that nothing will come from it other than our mutual satisfaction.
Honest and Trustworthy: This is the single most important part to any relationship with me. I have lived the songs of heartbreak and betrayal and I am not looking to sing another chorus of he done me wrong. Lies count. I can handle the truth. I may not like it, but I can handle straight talk. I am not the jealous type and expect the man I am with to be secure enough to know I am not looking elsewhere. I don’t expect you to not look at another woman. I do expect you to realize who you would be going home with at the end of the night.
Communication is the biggest key. If you are still interested after reading all of this, please contact me. I don’t bite … hard … and not unless asked to. :)
First dates are for getting know one another. Ice cream, lunch or a lite dinner somewhere then something like a walk, bowling, mini golf so that we have a chance to talk.