I am really not that picky, I just know him, when I see him after I meet him -
If you think wanting to be with someone who does NOT smoke anything, not any type of substance, is picky, then maybe, I am a bit picky. I am sooooooo tired of dealing with people who smoke, I just got the last person out of my life that smokes....never again, this person was the last for the rest of my entire life. I don't smoke anything of any kind so why be with someone else that does. Makes sense to me -
Looking for a Cool, Sexy, Fun Guy that works on himself, meaning not only working out or exercising or playing sports and eating right but looking at your soul, in a way, that makes you a better person. I don't care how you do it, just that you do it and make an effort to be a better person.
I work on myself everyday, I am not perfect by any means but I am much more grounded, peaceful, happy and more sane than I use to be. I do NOT do drugs at all, not even take prescription drugs and I don't drink anymore. Been there, done lots of crazy fun stuff...had that type of fun and now, I have even more fun by being present and in the moment, as much as I possibly can.
More than anything, I just want to keep being happy and be even more happy with someone else.
Also, I have done the online dating thing before so, I have seen and heard it all. I am now back because I did meet some great guys before I got off of POF last time but the timing was not right or we just did not ever meet up and I also, wanted a break from the online thing and then, I did get into a pretty serious relationship, over the summer, with someone I did not meet on here.
Anyway, send me a message and tell me what makes you stand out in a crowd and what you are looking for - please be real and serious about dating to take it slow so we can really know each other to see where it can go from there.
I love to be active and I am adventurous and I like trying fun new things !!!
Have to say this - sorry if I offended anyone but what the Hell ? Guys are aging much faster than women these days, I know you guys have a lot of stress, women do too but Men have more and it is showing. I help people to release stress, by the way. Lots of the guys close to my age, look like they could be not only my dad but my gandpa' too. There is a reason why I don't look my age and one reason is Hypnotherapy, people just don't want to put two and two together. Eat right, take care of yourself and Release the stress from your body, mind and soul, it works. I look better than I did when I was in my 30's but I work at it and up to this point, no botox or any lifestyle lifts - my real age is 47 years young.
The reason my age is not right is because, read below what this site says -
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