I am interested in men that have good values and a positive belief system about themselves and the world around them.
The man who would fit well with me is someone who is family orientated, who wants to start with a friendship with sexual attraction, but is wise enough to know it takes maturity to have a lasting fun relationship. I prefer men between the ages of 32 and 42.
If you are still partying, getting drunk with the boys every weekend (ofcourse hanging with the boys is necessary), if you smoke pot still at age 30 or are doing any type of drugs or drinking is a regular part of your lifestyle. You would be wasting your precious time sending me an email so don't.
I am not looking for the perfect man because I am by no means a perfect woman and if you are looking for your perfect woman I am not she. That being said I am very much into the experiencing the mysterious of life and being patiently excited about what is to come next. I know this may sound vague but its just a profile and you are but still a stranger maybe to become a friend and be able to talk more about this and experience life together in the beautiful universe that it is.
This man who I was speaking of that would fit well with me has passed his comfortable stage in his career. He wants to take smart risks in his career and has developed a good sense of himself and wants a woman in his life to add to what he has, to flourish with his successes in life, spirituality, career and self development. He is on that path, used his creativity and is on to something new. I don't know who he is exactly but he can see me for who I am and apprieciates someone who smart, spiritual, creative, outgoing but introspective as well, believes in the God of Abraham, Isaac and believes in having a personal relationship with that Higher Power.
On the lighter more practical subject. He doesn't snore because holding each other in bed at night is something both of us feel good about and I am a light sleeper. He is clean but not controlling or perfectionistic. Enjoys cooking is very sexy when a man loves to cook and taste. I enjoy cooking as well and love to taste, smell and take in textures and flavors as long as they are pleasant to me. Of course a good sex life is very important to both of us, so we like to keep ourselves fit, clean, smelling good, and being open, adventurous and fluid. Being in the moment seeing what new will come in the next moment without controlling, demanding, manipulation outcomes.
I picture a flower blooming, opening and giving off brilliant color and fragrances, not knowing what is to come but good things if one can let good things just continue to happen. Maybe this is how I believe life to be. There will always be the negative energy suckers. To them you will only be paid no attention to because life is way too short to let those energy suckers in, the ones that tell you who you are because of their own projections of their views about woman or other people. And they are everywhere living in their unhappy miserable lives, trying to bring you down with them. Everyone can be susceptible those negative attacks because of what I say, believe, look like etc, but it doesn't affect me because I don't have a second thought usually after I laugh and then hit the delete button. That is why I prefer people who have self awareness and appropriate levels of self esteem and healthy interactions with the opposite sex. These are much more important to me than how much money someone makes.
More about my life. I like to keep in shape, going out and wearing high heels. I do also enjoy most of the time the simple things in life like slicing a payaya and eating it with a glass of white wine and cheese. I enjoy walking my dog and watching her play or interact with other humans. I enjoy yoga, belly dancing and singing (no I am not a singer) Just in the shower or when I turn the music up loud at home. LOL I have a passion for the outdoors, music and creativity. I like eating clean, healthy food but do love to splurge as well. I try to keep my sugar cravings in check but sometimes I just need to have that chocolate fill in the blank. Ofcourse chocolate can usually be substituted with an equivalent satisfaction within a committed relationship.
I am a terrible speller but I like Shakespeare, I like to read about new things that I don't know about. So I have alot of reading to do LOL. I enjoy my means to making money but I would like to develop my vision and career more. So that is what I am currently working on. I love to surf and be in the water but have not been in a while so if you do as well I would sure be up for enjoying some waves and beach time or bonfire.
I enjoy traveling to new places. My most recent trip was Netherlands, Paris, and Madrid in 2011. The year before was Poland, Prague, and Ibiza. I also love to backpack and write. I used to fly fish when I lived in northern cali and then moved to Whitefish Montana to pursue my love for flyfishing. I worked on an organic farm while I made flyfishing friends and explored the rivers in Montana. I caught my first rainbow trout in the Trinity Alps and it was after a long day of fishing. Nobody caught anything and I was with some pretty experienced flyfishermen. We were back at camp and I decided to go to a certain spot of the river and give it one more shot. It was my first catch and release and it was just me, God and the fish. It was such a magestic experience in the middle of a lush green mtn forest with clean flowing river. I was hooked, liked when a surfer is stoked when catching that perfect wave. You just know that was the one, I was alone and I knew I wanted to fish in Montana - the Bitteroot and Blackfoot. Good times
Back to you.. I am looking for a down-to-earth positive person who knows how to dance (figuratively), has read the Bible before making opinions on it, has his own thoughts, a place to live, career, working vehicle and wants to share himself and experiences with me. He is not off traveling the world all the time, just maybe sometimes. I am not too political but knowledgeable with opinions. He is learning something from his past, prays, grows and continues his passion in life. He must be MASCULINE. As i know my descriptions may sound feminine because a woman is writing this and I am not a man but he is very MANLY and that is his job ! Meaning fixing cars and smoking a cigar or cigarette while drinking beer with his guy friends is completely cool as long as its not a habitual thing and as long as I can deliver a couple beers in my black high heels and booty shorts and you chase me down after your buddies leave, but really I just want to know more about you without any drama attached.
Someone who has love to share, give, and receive.
My intent is to have a good relation