Just “being in a relationship” with someone no longer has appeal form me, unless it is a relationship I REALLY want to be in, with a man who desires me, and gets what I am all about as much as I “get” and desire him.
I am a very complex, sensitive, sensual and emotionally tuned-in being; I most enjoy pleasures of the body and senses: moving, touch, being touched, working as an artist or acupressurist, dancing, doing yoga, hiking or bicycling in nature or in the City, working in my garden, making dinner. I don’t invest a lot of time sitting still and talking, watching TV or just hanging out and drinking wine….
My inner child is alive and well; in fact, she has always been with me. I am just an old little girl, rather. I still know how to play, and would REALLY enjoy playing with a sensual, attractive, slim and conscious man who remembers HOW to play, is physically fit and has some emotional intelligence; who is interested in a relationship of playful intimacy with me, and whose world views are at least compatible with my own…Obviously this means someone who still ENJOYS being very active, whether it is in dancing, yoga, hiking, bicycling or love-making. Since I am such a kinesthetically-oriented person, I really respond better to someone who has cared well for his body and is not overweight. I am also very open to finding a walking partner, who can walk well and hold an interesting conversation with me at the same time......
I love practicing my own synthesis of Yoga, Tai Chi, ballet, and contact improv at the freestyle dance venus I attend regulary 3-4 times a week.. I am an excellent cook, and prefer eating at home to eating out, in general. I am back in school (online) getting certified as a Holistic Health Practitioner, hopefully a kind of GP without pharmaceuticals. I need a great deal of freedom and independence, probably a good deal more than most women that I know, since I lead a very full life that I believe has some importance.
I do love San Francisco, but I am open to relocating to a smaller, less urban community, particularly one that I consider has a relatively active conscious/freestyle dance community, and where I could have a garden and access more nature nearby. I prefer ocean climate to inland, if possible.
Please do not contact me if you are under 50, politically conservative, don’t know how to play, or don't have a recent full body picture of yourself on your profile. I appreciate honesty, and have grown a bit intolerant of online deceit. Extra consideration for men who move well and know from experience what the term “embodied” actually means….
A first date is just about seeing if there is chemistry, and communion, and communication. If there is none, it would be a short date. if there is some, who knows what the time together would extend into?