I have an interesting blend of traits that may not always go together.
I am extremely strong and confident but I am also incredibly nice and sweet.
I am intense, focused and serious about my work but I work hard to include fun in every opportunity.
I am highly intelligent but I love laughing and acting silly and goofy.
I am very aggressive and passionate but at times I am gentle and tender.
I am very secure in who I am but I still hurt when someone doesn't treat me right.
I want to travel the world but I also want to settle down and start to raise a family sometime in the next 5 years.
I am cautious with love but I jump in 100% if the chemistry and love is mutual.
Some people are intimidated by this and I'm looking for the man who isn't.
Do you think you can beat me in a game of Scrabble?
Intelligence turns me on far more than a hot body ever could.
Were you raised to treat a lady with respect?
Nice guys finish first with me and chivalry is appreciated.
Are you available emotionally?
I'm looking for real. If I just wanted to hook up with someone I could head down to Rainey Street and bring someone home tonight. We all could.
Do you have security and stability in your life?
Too much drama and you get voted off the island.
Do you have the resources and desire to travel to fun places?
I can cover my own way and I have a passport, let's go.
When we are comfortable with each other will you be just as willing to take me to bed as you are to take me to meet your friends and family?
I have no desire to be your secret lady on the side or worse one of many in your little black contact list.
Are you willing to show me you're interested?
If you don't reach out in the first place or if once we've been talking I don't hear from you casually throughout the day, I'll think you're not interested and therefore I won't be either.
I think I've given you a few topics of conversation to start with here. Pick one and let's go from there. You also get bonus points for mentioning a flower in your response because it tells me you actually read all of this. Woohoo! Don't worry, if you're a scanner and you catch it later you can still include the flower in conversation.
I think that the first date is about getting to know the other person and see if you like them in person. Save all the flashy showy impressive things for a future date. No need to pull out the big guns at first. Coffee, dinner or drinks are great for a first date.