Diner would be good, a chance to talk. I never let the girl pay, I am old fashioned like that. I find talking to someone online is a completely different experience when compared to meeting them in person. I don't mind sending messages for a while but you never really figure out who some is until you meet them. I have chatted with girls online for weeks, and they seemed cool until I met them and found out that they were really odd or schizo. (You really can't tell when someone is crazy online) Thus I don't like to waste a lot of time talking online. I like to meet in a safe location like the carousel at the carousel mall and then have dinner and/or see a movie at the mall. If you would prefer a different location or date idea I am always open to suggestions. A date is just a chance to meet someone.