Please don't be younger than me. Been there, done that, and I won't do it again. Be normal. Don't be a 'thug', it's not cute or acceptable. Delete your profile completely if you don't have a job. No woman wants to date an unemployed guy, therefore you should not be on a dating site. Period. Have a sense of humor. Be confident and flirty. Don't have tattoos on your face, anywhere else is hot, unless they're jail type tats, those aren't so hot. Be willing to take risks in life. Don't be closed minded. Be strong enough to handle a confident, independent woman. And PLEASE know how to carry on a real conversation. I'm just looking to get to know someone, go out, and see where it leads. I'm in no rush for anything.
The "way too long" version (for those of you who are really interested):
I'm just a fun loving, easy going, down to earth girl. I love the simple things in life. I enjoy every moment of every day. I've learned to live, love, and forgive. I'm looking for someone that knows how to truly respect a good woman and knows how to appreciate her as well... I have no ex drama and I have a great relationship with my crazy little family. I'm self-sufficient, confident, and sometimes a little sassy and sarcastic.
I'd like to say I'm half girly girl and half tomboy. I like all sorts of things from makeup and high heels to beer pong and camping. I like to have a good time but also know when and how to be mature ;) I'm pretty happy with my life. I have a job that I love and my own place. I have two amazing teen kids (they have the same father btw lol) and a small but great group of friends that I love spending time with. But since it's always nice to have someone special to create memories with, I feel the only thing missing is my sidekick! So, maybe, just maybe, I will find him here.. Stop laughing, I said maybe! ;)
I'm looking for a gentleman that enjoys life, is funny as hell, and is generally happy. I want to say that I'm not the kind of woman that needs a man in my life. If I have a man in my life it's not because I need him there it's because I want him there. And if he doesn't want to be there, I'm definitely not chasing after him... I'm over the "boys" in the world so I'm looking for a man, a gentleman. I'm not looking for Prince Charming and I'm not trying to find that "perfect" person. I'm just looking for a guy that compliments me as a person, as I do him.
Oh, and I'm not interested in your naked, or half naked, pictures... at this point anyway. Just sayin'. ;)
So, I don't ask for much but for Heaven's sake please do not have any pictures of yourself in prison! I mean, unless you work there. The only thing I truly expect is respect. I am not your local hoodrat, side hoe, booty call, etc. I am a woman so please treat me as such...