I'm your worst nightmare: blond, pretty, playful; funny, charming, challenging: 5'6", 120. Difficult? Perhaps, but I know just when to turn lovable. You hate women like me, but you can't get enough of us.... So, for a great time, why not take a chance? Go "all in". The benefits just might outweigh the risk. You have nothing to lose, but opportunity.
Hey, guy, I'm just having a little fun with you!!! Actually, I'm charming, playful, funny, bright, creative, artistic, and psychologically savvy; I'm understanding, supportive, best-friend material, but I am nobody's fool; I'm loyal, honest, and honorable. I have a consistently sunny disposition, a positive outlook, and I am a lot of fun as well. I'm high energy, but not high maintenance.
What would I consider to be a wonderful guy? Someone who is funny, romantic, warm, charming, conversant, energetic, interesting, thoughtful, nice-looking, open, and emotionally-available. He is probably between the ages of 58 and 68. Retired or about to retire would be nice. A generous, helpful, protective attitude would be a plus. An interest in any of the following pastimes or subjects would be great: dancing, boating, cycling, reading, writing, traveling, restoring homes, developing real estate, sports events, music, musical events, psychology, personal growth, nature, photography, poetry, literature, history or the arts.
All that said, chemistry, character, conversational skills, and the ability to make a meaningful connection are what matter the most to me.
Either as partners or friends, relationships with the opposite sex offer some of the biggest joys in life. In fact, they are the only games in town worth playing. And, if you are going to play successfully; you need to be either all out or all in. In romance, as well as everything else, if you haven't said yes, you have said no. I want a partner whose happiness and well being are a priority in my life; and someone to whom mine are the same. I have never understood people who make someone else a priority in life, when all they are is an option.
I do not answer profiles of men who appear to place too much emphasis on their sexuality or sensuality, My preference is for someone the same age. I would also consider someone within 10 years younger or ten years older than I am. I do not answer profiles without photos.
I love to dance: swing, Cajun-Zydeco, social dancing, but it is not required that my partner dance, or want to learn, as long as that hobby does not present a problem. I also teach dance to men who want to learn how to quickly get "up to speed" in the world of social dancing.
If romance isn't a possibility, we might make great friends, (if this appeals to you). Friendships are very important to me. Making new friends is one of the wonderful possibilities on this site. I wish I could answer each one of you individually, but I can not. I can, however, wish you every happiness in your future; in fact, here's wishing you all of the happiness that you can stand!! Ahhh,see, I do know just when to turn lovable, don't I? And as Jimmy Breslin said, after reading one of Son of Sam's incredible rants: "He is the only person I know who understands the proper use of the semicolon."