I'm a software engineer. Other people dream it, I make it happen. I'm a naturally curious/inquisitive person.
I had a good upbringing. I respect marriage and relationships, but at this point I'm dubious if there are many women who are right for me. I'm not looking to get married ASAP, to be clear, but I am open to it. I want someone I can be me with. Yes a friend. Someone who makes me forget about everyone else, know what I mean?
On the other side of the coin I want passion. The kind where it doesn't really fizzle out much.
The best match for me would be someone who exhibits self-efficacy, has higher than average intellect, and probably has some sorft of technical/mentally demanding career.
She probably has a bit of a dark side, but strives to be good. Sensual, and physically affectionate (isn't afraid to touch or kiss, actually shows her attraction). Independence is probably huge. I'm an odd mix of very independent but affectionate.
Museum of Science or Art. I have memberships to both.
Or if you're into archery, we could hit the range together and shoot targets.
Or see a band that's in town?
Dancing lessons..... uh maybe not. I don't want to be embarrassed that much on a first date.
I would prefer to meet and talk. Over food or drinks, doesn't matter. However I would want to get to know you in person because we all have this stupid tendency to fill in the blanks with our imagination and form the wrong picture of a person before meeting.