***Some nice, funny, well mannered, generous gentleman would love to spend time with me.***
You will be romantic, kind, sincere, affectionate and possess "some" of the traits I do. Just some would be enough. For most of us, we pretty much want the same things. To be respected, loved and admired. Don't you?
You will have the ability to communicate and express your feelings and emotions so I can better learn about you and be your better half. Good communication skills are high on my list. We cannot have a successful relationship without the ability to express ourselves and be understood.
I stay away from people who dwell on negativity, they drain my energy!
I practice to be in the "solution" and not the "problem".
I am playful, funny, love to laugh and have a lot of fun. Friends tell me that I have a great sense of humor and actually "do" make them laugh. I don't take myself seriously. I even laugh at myself. Sometimes I am a little "animated", like a cartoon character...lol, and become quite enthusiastic. Yes, I do have my quiet time!
I am easy going, comfortable and fun to be around (I am told); vivacious, young at heart, energetic, flexible, spontaneous and a little mischievous.
I am selective and in no rush. Respect and friendship first and love will follow.
Cannot love someone if they don't respect me. I want my partner to be my trusted best friend. I am confident, responsible, dependable, reliable, honest, trustworthy and loyal. I have a strong sense of self and know what I want. I am not a wimp and not afraid of rejection. I can be vulnerable and have my feelings hurt. But, I don't dwell on that and bounce right back quite quickly. Sometimes, I cry. Are you okay with that? Will you comfort me? As I will for you, just tell me how you would like to be comforted? I do not read minds.
I do not mislead nor misrepresent myself. I would like to date and develop a good friendship and a long term relationship. My intent is to re marry, after 30 years of being single. By choice, had a son to raise. Right now, being married, finally, sounds very good and I am really ready and ready to love again. Also, I love children, but please, no dependent children. No family drama, custody battles, child support....and all those sad, divorcees lives.
I am drama free. One adult child, educated and on his own. My pride and joy and my greatest accomplishment. I did a great job. Now, it is me time! No other children and no ex's to deal with. I will welcome your independent adult children and grandchildren, if any. Most likely, I will never be a grandmother on my end but would certainly welcome yours, if you let me share them.
If you let me, I will be your supportive, faithful cheerleader in every aspect of your goals and aspirations as you will be mine as well.
I am affectionate, like to touch and be touched, hugs and kisses, once you become my friend.....LOL.
Friends tell me that I am interesting to chat with. I acquired knowledge, experience and wisdom throughout my life, so, I can discuss pretty much on any topic of your or my interests; you won't be bored. There is a lot more about me, so, if you have questions, feel free to ask. I promise not to bite....lol...lol.
If you cannot be honest and just like to play head games then please move on to another profile. No matter how dapper, I'll figure you out soon enough.
I traveled and would love to travel either nearby or far, weekend getaways are great especially somewhere near the ocean, I am caring, loving, no drama, intelligent, cultured, educated and well mannered. I like my little black dress, five star hotels and five star restaurant, but that is not the key to true happiness. I don't believe that wealth can buy love, if so, it is only temporary. (no, I don't need a sugar daddy, but I won't complain if you choose to be one).....lol. like my jeans, digging in the garden, indulge in hamburgers and fries and pizza...my comfort foods.
I was born a lady and I find it difficult to adjust to reduced circumstances of my current residence and its vicinity. Not too many cultured, well mannered gentleman here. But many angry rednecks ...lol. Pity. And, yes, to be a lady requires good personal maintenance and I am proud of it. You will not pay for it nor will I ask you to pay for it. It is part of who I am. Ahhhh, but you'd sure enjoy it.
This does not mean that I don't like digging in the dirt with a shovel, quite the contrary; I love gardening and creating pleasing landscaping. I am my own landscaping architect.
**** Being cultured, traditionally, was for the wealthy upper class. Although wealth is not a requirement for good manners! Good manners are taught; we are not born with them. Again, refer to the definition of gentleman/lady.
**** I am not looking for wealth nor a sugar daddy.***** (I won't complain if you insist on being one....lol...lol.) Do you have the ability to "love", really love?
If you love sports and you have an open mind and are willing to try something new, something different. Then, you are my man...lol...lol. I am not that complicated! If you read this far to get this message...lol...lol.
You may be surprised that it is not that "painful" to appreciate art and culture.....LOL.....LOL. If this sounded cynical? Yes, it was meant to be cynical. The Sacramento and vicinity are trying hard to bring culture into this area, and they have since I moved here, however, the sports arenas still hold the upper hand. Too many sports enthusiasts still rule this area which takes away focus and finance for expanding culture. If you enjoy both, that is a bonus! ....lol. I lived in San Francisco for many years. And, no, I cannot afford to live there anymore. Not on my own. I lived there with my biological family and my former (now diseased) husband. So, if you say: go back where you came from! I can't!....lol
If you take me to a symphony (or any other cultural activity listed in my interests) then I'll watch sports with you. I think that is fair. It is nice to have company when viewing something we enjoy? I was brought up with Brazilian "football", known as soccer in this country. Anyone remembers Pele?....LOl. He was known as an icon of soccer.
Have you ever looked up the definition of a "gentleman" and "lady". If you don't know or are not sure, find out just what skills are needed for a man to be called a "gentleman" and the woman to be called a "lady". Not many men are gentlemen and not many women are ladies. because they were not taught and never looked up