After you've been single for some time....it's really hard to know what to write here. So, I'm just gonna say whatever comes to mind, I guess. About me...hmm...well, I've been single for a long time. I just haven't met the right one! He's so hard to find! Seems like we are all so very set in our ways at this age, and it's hard to let someone new in, hard to make changes that would allow a new person in. But...I'd like to.
In the long run....I'd like to find Mr Right, and settle down and live happily ever after. But, there is no way to know if you are the right man until some time has passed. I don't expect every man I have dinner with to be Mr Right! I don't expect every man I like to be Mr Right, either!! So...In the shortterm...I want to meet someone that I enjoy being with. Yes, I want him to be open to letting something develop....but, I'm not going to hold him to it if it doesn't!!!
So....about me........I'm independent...fun to be with, once you know me. I've gotta get past my shyness first, because yes, I am kinda shy. I guess I'm also the quiet type, and serious. But, I can open up, when I'm with someone I click with! I am primarily a homebody. I like doing things, yes, but my favorite place to be is home. Mine or yours. Maybe someday, ours! I like outdoor things. When I was divorced, eventually I sold the house back to my ex, and since then, I've been living in an apartment. I thought it would be easier, as a female......but, I so miss my yard!!! Next year, I plan to buy a small home for myself, just so I can have a yard, again. I miss my flowers!!! I also miss the vegetable garden. I've been waiting for Mr Right to come along, so I could do all that with him....but...alas...I feel like I need to go ahead and do it or I may miss my chance.....
What I need in a man.......Someone who is laid back, easy going, easy to get along with, and easy to talk to. I don't think I'd do well with a man who is a social butterfly, who always has to be going somewhere and doing something. I think I'd bore him...and he'd drive me crazy. The kind of man I think I'd like is one who likes doing manly things....like building something, fixing something all the time. Who is serious about his home, and his family. One who is not into having to do the right thing all the time....Is not socially correct.
Attraction........sorry, fellows, but us women also feel the need to be attracted to our mates, that is just the way it is. The biggest thing that attracts me, is personality. He's gotta be willing to coax me out of my shell, gotta wanna know me........if he doesn't, I'll see that right off the bat. Next thing, on the physical...I do want him bigger than me. I am 5'8" and 170 pounds...... I admit, I want him to be a big guy....but...shoot...I hate saying this!! I don't want him to be obese, ok!! I'm sorry!!! Now, if you are really out of shape, and want a woman, I suggest spending some time getting yourself in shape to get that woman!! It's your responsibility to yourself and to her!!!! Not my fault!
Anyway...don't know what else to say. If you wanna know more...write me!