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I'm a bi masculine discreet ALPHA top, I'm also very romantic and protective of the person I am with. I'm HIV negative, drug and disease free non-smoker and expect you to be the same. I'm not into the "Gay Scene" at all and don't go to gay clubs or events. I'm an all American guy whom just happens to be Bi, I do not let my sexuality define me. Like to just hang out with regular masculine guys and feminine petite REAL women. Not into guys that "act" straight or are hyper-masculine, just be yourself.
I have always been a serial monogamist type of guy but very hard to find men whom share that trait in the gay world therefore most of my long term relationships have been with women. Looking for a guy to hang with that does not look or act like a big girl. Like a guy that is submissive in the bedroom AND an equal out.
I drive a truck and convertible, I enjoy the outdoors, biking is one of my favorite weekend activities & tennis. I have a great dog that I treat like my own kid (which he is) and value family and friendships, both are not disposable. NOT looking to fall in love but if it comes around I might be open to the right person, I'm a tad jaded. Not into guys or women that are partnered with another guy or cheating on someone.
Things that really get my attention, monogamy, loyalty and integrity. I don't care if your rich or poor, just be honest. I'm pretty much a homebody and enjoy cuddling, watching a movie and just being with the person I care about. I'm a big believer in public service and volunteer at several non-profits. I'm also a SciFi geek and love gadgets. I enjoy the Sunday paper, over a cup of coffee looking over at someone whom I hope will be looking back at least every once in a while?
Really would like to shake your hand before I shake anything else.
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I want to clarify something that I keep getting email on. Just because you are bi does not mean you are afraid of being homosexual. I have obviously embraced both aspects in my life. I am no less of a man because I desire other men and am no less of a gay man because I am only a top or also desire women. I find chemistry NOT anatomy the defining precept on whom I choose to engage. In fact I could argue that those whom choose not to consider all people are the one's whom may have the issue. If you would like to have a civil discussion or debate on this subject, let's chat. And just because I am bi does not make me a big whore, I VALUE monogamy with what ever sex I have chosen to settle down with! Whatever sex you are, if you are afraid to go out with someone that is bi because of "all the temptations" that's your insecurity not mine.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First date would be an easy laid back time. Meet up for coffee or a beer/wine and see where things go from there. Have been a "scheduled" guy all my life but now just taking it easy and seeing where the day takes me. I find listening an art, and like the person whom I'm with to know that what they have to say is important in the grand scheme of things if not in that exact moment.