Single,sexy(confident not conceited)and easy going, laid back,low maintenance,playful and carefree type of woman,who likes to laugh,smile, love and that believes in God. I like to be silly at times (the kid in me-us that we all have "somewhere")and have fun with my man no matter where we are or what were doing.
Love home life,family life(would prefer to stay home and watch a movie,snuggle,dinner,drinks,entertain friends than go out to a bar)but would also enjoy us going out sometimes to a movie,play,comedy club,dinner,dancing,(I love to dance)etc.This gives couples a different perspective on their relationship.
I do not "need" a man, rather than would enjoy the company of a man in my life, I believe we are meant to be two...as in a couple. I'm not one of these woman that feel I can't be happy in life unless I'm in a serious commitment, I'm already happy, just missing that special someone in it,and if I meet that one man and we fall in love.... let it happen naturally,and I will treasure him each and every day.
Don't do well and will not accept people into my life that yell,scream,always argumentive,negative, or are mean to others.....I like a get along,happy,laid back style of life.
Plain and simple.... I HATE DRAMA !!!
Would like to meet a man that has high morals and values and secure within himself and knows how to treat a lady as well as others with respect.
Also must enjoy time spent at home,family life,as well as being out and about...and MUST believe in GOD!
You like to have fun with your woman and also have a side to you that you know when and where to let it run free.
I'm not in search for a man made of money,(money cannot buy what I seek) Nor am I a user of people,not my style... I don't mind lending a helping hand to someone when needed.It's a great feeling of volunteering and helping others.
Enjoy an intelligent conversation,no matter how light or deep it is.
Know how to be serious but also know how to have fun,laugh,be silly and really enjoy life.
Love nature and enjoy the beauty of it,love rainy days,thunderstorms,music,holding hands,passionate kissing,and looking into someones eyes and not needing to say a word to be understood.
Open communication and complete honesty is a must or we will not last long,a relationship cannot survive otherwise,and I know the differance.
Also someone to truly stay themselves and not change with time,nor try to change me would be nice,I see this in alot of relationships..it's just not for me.
I like to do most anything,it's not so much of what one is doing that matters,if your with the right person,anything can be fun and enjoyable.
Timing is critical, two people need to be at the same place in life mentally,and emotionally or very close to it, in order for a relationship to succeed.
Also real communication and not just the "lip" talk that we all have either given out or received at sometime in our lives is crucial..
*I've learned in life that you should stick with the relationship you've started or just started,which ever the case may be.... if you ever want to learn deep and meaningful lessons about intimacy. If you jump from partner to partner, you'll remain stuck in shallow water. If you avoid love altogether for fear of being hurt, you'll simply end up lonely and bitter.*
The man I seek is,loving,giving,strong when he needs to be,but weak enough to accept what is given...smart,yet willing to learn...love public displays of affection no matter how small or big "don't worry I'm not the type that will hang on you",has a passion burning inside,yet knows when the time is right to let it run free.
Honesty that comes from the truth,and most of all,be willing to laugh at his own mistakes,and be forgiving of himself.For we all are not perfect, but the right one makes us feel as if we are.
My version of OZ:
As Dorathy walks down the road of life...she comes across a frozen Tin Man.
He was frozen because he had rusted. Yes it was raining…but very,very lightly.
He had plenty of time to seek shelter and dry himself,then oil his body,yet he never did.
Dorothy...who was only looking for a helping hand from someone to get home,reached out and picked up the oil can,and helped him find his heart again.
Dorothy helped someone without seeking...reward.
Turns out the Tin Man only wanted a heart. He had allowed life to slow him down to the point where his heart had rusted,no longer existed in his chest.
So many of us are like him. We seek love...but forget to have the heart.
We need to remember that love is a verb, you have to feel it,you have to show it, and what you give you will receive.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Good conversation, being attracted to each other,chemistry and an interest is where it all begins...then it will all fall into place.
I do not want,need,nor am I attracted in any way to a man that is self-centered,self absorbed of himself,mean or selfish with himself or towards people. If this is you,do not waste my time.
I would quickly fiqure you out.