OK, first of all, lets get something straight. Online dating is a different animal from regular in-person dating. It's a lot easier to hit on someone online and the rejection doesn't hurt as bad as in person. hehe... With that said, people are a lot pickier online when choosing who they want to correspond with and I think people should respect that. Let's be real now. We aren't searching for people with the best personalities on here, initially, that is. It all starts with attraction and chemistry! So, please, if I don't respond, then I'm not interested or attracted. Nothing personal. I'm being selective, as should everyone else also. I've had plenty of guys ignore me also (I'm not everyone's type either.) I know the feeling, but at least I don't write hate mails to them. Please grow up, for those who can't take rejections.
What am I looking for long term? Loving, respectful and faithful husband and kids.
What am I looking for now? Friends first. I want something serious, but if we can't even be friends, its pointless to move forward in the relationship, right?
High Maintenance: When I go out, I like to get dolled up, dressed up and attempt to look my best. I love designer fashion, clothes, handbags and shoes! I'm very independent though. I've worked for everything I have and never depended on anyone to buy me anything. (I'm not a user or gold-digger.) I love going out, sight-seeing, tasting new foods, exploring, and making the best of every situation. I love to hang out with people who make me laugh.
Low Maintenance: Drama & baggage free. I've never been to the hair or nail salon. I do everything myself. I mow my own lawn. I have both a push mower and tractor, since 5 acres is a lot to mow. hehe... I'm not afraid to get dirty when doing yard work. I know how to use most things in a garage. I also know how to cook, so I'm very self-sufficient.
Ideal Guy: GQ!!! Tall, handsome, ATTRACTIVE, smart, sweet, FUNNY, humble, ambitious, respectful, romantic, honest, caring, sensitive, cultured, well-dressed (someone who can keep up with me, whether we dress down or dress up for a night out), independent, well-mannered, out going, spontaneous, etc... If you don't own a suit or is comfortable wearing one, don't waste your time emailing me. If I make the effort to look nice, then I expect my guy to do the same.
Not into: Smokers, tatoos, alcoholics, drug addicts,cheating men, divorced men, men with kids, or really old men.
There's always exceptions to the rules, and rarely do I actually fall for the guy described above, but if you asked me to list, that's what I'd say all the time. Initially, I have to be attracted to the guy. If his personality outweighs his looks, then he's probably a keeper. If not, I need to keep looking. Looks aren't everything. Deep meaningful conversations are much more important.
I'm super picky and I know what I want. I'll let you know when I meet HIM. I don't plan on settling for just anyone.
Am I a bit weird? Hell yeah!! Am I perfect. Heck NO! Not your typical gal! Not into Reality Shows, nor do I care what Snooki, Kim or her family are doing!
Why am I single? I guess I always fall for the ones who have no interest in me. I'm used to the Rejection now. hehe...
Umm... Are cute guys really shy, or just not interested? Just curious.