Hello, I feel a little ridiculous being on one of these sites..but its unbelievable how hard it is to meet anyone! I'm a nurse so theres not alot of men in my workplace which is where I spend alot of time. seems anyone I meet at a bar is an alcoholic..convicted felon, or both!! lol..its true though! I am unique in the fact that I don't try to be anyone but ME. I dont care to be around people who try to be someone they clearly arent.I cant stand people who change who they are according to whos around. If everyone would just be themselves I think the world would be a much cooler place! By the way I am practically computer illiterate, which is why I dont hav a pic. I'm no model, but have never been told Im the opposite either! I think too much is based on looks anyway..especially on this type of thing. I feel like I am where i want to be right now in my life..but I would like to have that special person to share my thoughts, feelings, ideas and time with.Not looking for someone who HAS to have a partner but WANTS to.**ok so I have pics now..if your gonna send me a message tellin me how big your **** is or anything of that nature, please dont bother!Also for those that list their idea of a good first date is a date that takes place on the beach..last time I checked there were no beaches in Illinois.