stargazer379: I'm just going to be me :)
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Council bluffs, Iowa
38 year old Female, 5' 7" (170cm), Christian - other
Caucasian, Pisces
stargazer379 is actively seeking a relationship.
Bachelors Degree
Health Services

I am Seeking a Man For Long Term
Needs Test View her relationship needs Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Under 1 year How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets No Pets  

About Mary
Free advice:

Okay, boys. Let me give you some advice from a woman stand point and hopefully it will help someone out there in POF land:

1. Be brave. Email a woman if your interested. I understand they don't always respond. If they don't respond, they're probably not interested in you don't take it personal there is someone out there who is looking for someone like you. Rejection hurts but remember your on this site for a reason. Don't loose sight of your goal to get the heck off of this site. I'm a woman and my ego has been smashed more then once on this site and many time in life. Keep believing, keep searching.

2. ASK QUESTIONS. If a woman does answer your email, she's interested and wants to know more about you. (I can't believe I have to tell you this) ask her questions too. I have found myself lately asking all the questions when boys have contacted me. Asking questions is a very good way to earn brownie points and it shows your actually interested in her.

3. No mean no (once again, I can't believe I have to point this out). If a woman says no, it doesn't mean keep pressuring her until she changes her mind. It's a big turn off for me and most woman to have someone pressuring her over something she isn't comfortable with. Being overly aggressive is not cool.

4. Read the whole profile. If someone's profile says, not looking for sex, friends with benefit, etc., don't contacting them looking for sex. Reread #3...don't pressure them.

5. Be honest and upfront. More brownie points from me and women if your honest and upfront from the get go.


First of all, I don't play games so don't play them with me. Be honest with me and we'll get along just fine. You'll find an amazing person in me if you just look past the picture and get to know what's in my soul. It's up to you to take that chance to want to know me. You won't be disappointed.

Who am I: I've got a big heart and would do almost anything for those I care about. I'm fiercely loyal when I'm in relationship (no cheating). I'm faithful, honest, understanding, a good listener to those who show me the respect that I deserve. I strive to communicate and work thru all issues that may show their ugly face in a relationship. I'm not getting any younger but I've gained a lot more wisdom about what I want and don't want in a potential partner. I have a good sense of humor. I can dish out the jokes and also take what is handed back to me. I try to smile and laugh as much as possible. I'm working on being more positive with my thoughts. It's hard but I know I can make the change. I'm a INFJ. Don't know what it is? Search online about the subject. I'm employed and have been at my current job for over two years. I have been working out more and trying to stay in better shape. I'm noticing a difference. My new favorite to do is nature hiking. It's a blast! It's such a beautiful time of the year to get out and see the sites,

I'm looking for the long term and to find my best friend. I would love to find someone who is looking for the same goal in their life. I completely understand starting out just friends and building a relationship. I'm fine with it. It takes a lot of hard work but I'm willing to make the sacrifice. Are you? I am looking for someone who has a lot of the same personality traits I listed above. I'm also looking for someone who can show respect to others and me. I'm big on respect. I deal with children on daily basic (I have clean background). I don't mind if you have a child/children. Children seem to really like me once they warm up to me. What I don't want is anyone who has a drug habit (marijuana included), no severe drinking habit (if you like to have a few drinks every once in awhile, it's fine as long as you're not a crazy, abusive drunk), I'm not a big fan of smokers but I can deal with it if there is a connection between us.

Thank you for reading. I hope you catch the PERFECT one for you!

Feel free to contact me if this sounds like you or you think there might be a connection between us. I'm upfront and honest. I will weed out people who aren't serious pretty quickly. Don't message if you're not looking for anything serious. Please, please, please ask questions if you contact me. I can't keep a conversation going by myself.

DISCLAIMER #2>>>>I'm not looking for friends with benefits, one night stands, booty calls, random hook-ups, games, drama.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Let's meet up some where in the public and see if there is a connection.

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