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I have been told I am sweet, giving, silly, funny, kind, a good listener, and some people even think I am pretty. I do have killer dimples. Well you see the pictures, you can judge for yourself on the looks part. You would have to get to know me for the personality.
I am divorced. I have a son who I share custody of. I have an amicable relationship with my ex-husband. We work together to do what is best for our son. Yeah, he annoys the hell out of me sometimes, but at least now I can leave or tell him to get lost. We did get divorced for a reason.
I DO believe in love, most assuredly. I love lots of people, although no one romantically at the moment. To start though I am looking for friendship and laughter. If other things develop, great, but I need friends as much or more than lovers. OK, thinking it over, I would really like to have a relationship with someone, but I am able to bide my time and see what is out there without clinging like a drowning person to the first one that shows any interest. I may be a bit needy, but not THAT needy. I am a whole and complete person by myself. I just really like a friend and partner in my life.
I want to be and try to be happy. I have a quirky sense of humor and a taste for the perverse. I love to read but tend to find myself putzing around online more than reading these days. I find I enjoy games, board or card, not mind, tyvm. I am trying to make some small changes in my life that will make it better in the long run. Some days I am more successful than others, but I persevere.
I tend to be a loner by nature, but I would really like to have more of a social life. I will leave my home given enough incentive! I don't want to hang at bars or run around being wild and crazy. What I would like it to have a circle of friends to do things with. I am not the outdoorsy type, though I have been known to commune with nature on occasion, particularly if there is water involved.
I like a variety of music, but mainly listen to rock and 80's stuff. Current music I love: Pink, Train, Third Eye Blind, Tom Waits, Bette Midler (did you know they did a duet?) Occasionally classical or Broadway musicals. Not fond of rap or country, but there are songs even in those genres that I like as well.
I consider myself fairly well read for a person in this day and age. I have read classics by authors such as Dostoevsky, Austen,****ns, Conan Doyle, various Brontes, Twain, a whole slew of current writers, good, bad, and indifferent. One of my favorite series of books were the Chronicles of Thomas Covenant by Stephen Donaldson. I love science fiction and some fantasy, Heinlein, Niven, Asimov, Bradbury, Barker, etc. I read trash too. Just depends on the mood and the size of the print these days. But I just found a free kindle app for the computer, and you can get lots of free books for it too. Yippee!
I don't watch much actually on TV anymore, but I do follow several shows. The IT Crowd, Dr Who among them. I love movies, grew up watching old ones, enjoy new ones in most genres. I enjoy really bad horror flicks, the cheesier the better. Pass the Velveeta, please!
I do not smoke anything. I don't do any drugs that are not prescribed. I enjoy an occasional drink but am a real lightweight in that one department. Caffeine is my main drug of choice.
Oh, and by the way, I am really hot (Yes, this is highly subjective, but for those who like my kinda woman, I am). A great kisser I have been told. I would like to keep in practice with someone special. Or at least kissable.
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Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Movies, coffee, strolling down South Congress? Trying something I or we have never done before?
If you want a real laugh, take me bowling!
Online dating sites can be really....interesting. I just tried to message someone a whole year younger than me who claimed to be looking for a woman, and I was rejected for my age and gender. Oh well, he will never know what he is missing. Actually, I just wanted to say I liked his profile. His loss. I coulda been a contender!