LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING,,...BUT IT TAKES TWO(2).
Without a doubt, there are lot of good men out there. Men of great value, great fathers to their babies,
men of class, great romance, and Educated. MY HATS OFF TO ALL OF YOU.
Well, I'm a little cognizant about doing this again, but I have to be brave about it and I don't want to be a single pointed mind.
But only Love can heal the wounds of love. People comes into our lives for a Reason, Season, and a Lifetime.
I am ready for love. I’m not afraid to say that. And I will never back down from that. I am patient & know how to take my time. I want companionship. Someone I can be vulnerable with. I want to need him. I want to dependent on him. I want to satisfy him. If you don’t express these things, and admit your desires, you’ll never get what you want. A close mouth don’t get fed. And if he doesn’t want to feed you, then why should you go hungry while he feast on everything you have on your plate? I don't care if you are 6 million miles away from me, but such is life, men don't want to take risks, and NO, I'm not your neighbor, I'm still trying to find my way back.
A little about me. My God given name is Clarissah.
I am a Pacific Islander. 34 years of age, Beautiful deep brown eyes and skin complexion.
Healthy and proportioned in all the right areas, 134 lbs. I am 4'11".
Get to know me, the woman that I am today.
I'm an old fashioned type of gal who does phone calls instead of texts. Parks and Walks instead of Dinner Reservations. Quiet nights near a fireplace listening to Jazz or old sounds of Mr. Johnnie Taylor to Keith Sweat instead of rocking it out at a loud flamboyant can't hear a word concert.
I am a woman of good moral character. Matured and motivated. Highly educated, Strong and Independent.
Well rounded mentally, emotionally, physical and financially. GOD FEARING.
None smoker and none drinker, don't even drink socially.
I am a full time grad student and a Government Employee.
I have two children. Both girls. Both very young.
NOTE: If you do not like children, do not want children, cannot handle a strong celibate woman with children, or have been convicted of child crimes and sexual abuse, PLEASE do not message me.
I am successful, happy, driven and fulfilled woman. I am open minded and teachable. A great listener, and an excellent commmely hilarious, great sense ofor, but I am not perfect and I ookinor Mr Perfect either.
There are certain things in my life I choose to keep very private and close to my heart. My children's identities (meaning photos), The father of my children identities, my finances, and my trials and tribulations are mine, privately.
I now can only imagine what it would be like. There’s nothing tangible left, not even an old pair of boxer shorts. Just memories.
The memories of having someone are still so vividly fresh, and yet, it still pains me to imagine being alone for one more day, let alone a lifetime. Now, I'm content in the state of singleness, sexless, and everything else that God has brought before me to weather alone. I'm stronger, wiser, and much more intact than most women around, metaphorically and literally!
I am not looking for charity nor am I willing to waste your time and mine, my ideal goal on this site is to find someone I can count on when times gets tough, when I need a ear to listen, a shoulder to cry on, and most importantly, full unconditional love.
My other hobbies include, music, writing, being naked after 9pm, long car rides without a GPS system, getting lost in my sheets, BET, CPAN, and The First 48, College Football, Pro Football, The MLB, and the NBA. (A few select teams in all arenas), Being in love, being loved, Sandy white starry beaches, Blue Waters, SEX, oh and did I mention LOVE.
but please believe.......
I am a A TRUE Alabama fan forever , love the crowd on the quad before a football game, the smell of the grills, the spread of tons of food, the "Roll Tide" as you pass a fellow fan on the sidewalk, hearing Denny Chimes counting down the hour to kick off, then hearing the elephant triumph over the crowd, "THIS IS ALABAMA FOOTBALL" , and of course no Alabama game is complete without a little "Sweet Home Alabama...ROLL TIDE ROLL".
My Ideal Mate:
A strong man, who is not holding on to the unnecessary scene of his past, who does not feel insecure or has a low self esteem.
Someone who wants to be treated like a KING. A man that has a vision for his life.
A true man not a teenager that runs the street.
A man that wants to be nurtured and respected
A man that wants to be encourage and supported.
I am looking for a soul mate, a confidant and a true friend, NOT A SEX PARTNER. .
I am interested in someone that, I can call mine again. Someone to make my sun shiner and brighter....someone to make my life fun and fulfilled.
A true friend. Not someone who is shallow, arrogant and rude.
I am looking for a man that will lead in his house, build it, not to tear it down.
A man that respects the institution of marriage.
A man that takes pride in his woman
Walks with her, hold her hands, takes vacations together and enjoy life and all it entails
When you reached the lowest point in your life, someone to look up to would be...
A true confidant. Beautiful man beyond description.
I promise you will be treated like a KING.
That is my solemn PROMISE.
So in closing, remember that just because I’m strong minded, brutally honest and assertive, doesn’t make me a total and absolute @$$#0LE!..keep in mind that....
“Beneath the makeup and behind the smile, I am just a grown woman who wishes for the world.”