Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First dates from online dating sites should be more about making sure the person I'm meeting is not Jason Voorhees and less about grand romantic gestures.
As lame as it may sound it should be short simple and to the point. As a woman online dating can be a bit scary so I personally would prefer to do something simple like coffee in order to feel safe while establishing first contact.
And if we both survive first contact without terrifying eachother then we can discuss our real ideal dates :)