I really enjoy being out with lots of friends that know how to have a good time as the evening unfolds giving birth from the midnight sky to the morning sun. This is a rare and enjoyable ritual not a habit, I am talking about a several times a year thing... Music and abstract art are what I like to surround myself with. I enjoy lifting weights to stay in shape, martial arts, parties, concerts, comedy shows, Ducati motorcycles, muscle cars, exotic cars, camping, hiking, and mountain biking. The photograph of me carrying the girl over my head was taken spring of 2009 at Club Beta during a live performance Beauty Art Music (BAM) downtown. I had been lifting avidly for several months prior to this event trying to get over 300 pounds body weight (this wasn't for the show, I just wanted to do it for fun and see if I could do it) and the closest I got is in this pic where I am 297 pounds. I have currently leaned out down to 230 pounds and I have just started lifting more regularly to put mass back on. I am planning on doing higher rep sets and coming up to a leaner more ripped 250-270 pounds this summer. I like almost all music except country and what I call whiny punk. I am OK with punk but it should be loud and angry LOL.
I am looking for a fun and loving girl that is a little bit freaky, no dead fish please! I am not talking whips and chains with blueberry pancakes as a safe-word freaky but be into it, have drive, have fun, and be willing to take the initiative sometimes. When a girl can let loose and knows what she wants it makes the man feel sexy and really turns him on! The secret to successful relationships is to keep the fights clean and the sex dirty;-) Also I am devoted to keeping myself in decent shape and would like my girlfriend to be as well, please take no offense I am just not into bigger girls.
That all being said- I am a hopeless romantic at heart, and I am getting to the age where I would like to find my soul mate and settle down. I realize that dating is a necessary step to getting there so I won't exclude people that are looking to date if they do not exclude me for looking for long term relationships. I am not dead set on having children and definitely not in a rush to have them but I would like to have it be an option at least for me and my significant other if it turns out that we are going to be long term and that we are soul mates.
Hopeless romantics are in love with love. Hopeless romantics are idealists, the sentimental dreamers, the imaginative and the fanciful when you get to know them. They often live with rose colored glasses on.They make love look like an art form with all the romantic things they do for their special someone.
I also would like to mention that some women that have read my profile and gotten the impression that I am just a complete and utter party animal all the time. I do love to party, but that is a rare occurrence, not a frequent habit of any sort. When I do party I am the talkative happy person that loves people and laughs a lot, never the violent a$$hole obnoxious type that gets super sloppy.
If you have made it this far I should tell you that I am about to live out one of my life's dreams and sell my condo in Denver in order to raise capitol to build a self sufficient off grid home capable of producing my own safe organic non-GMO food, and surplus to sell. I will no longer have hardly any bills, which means I will not have to work for anyone else and I can start to enjoy life more and be able to travel when I have the funds. I plan on building an aquaponics set up that will produce fish to eat and expensive organic specialty herbs to sell to Asian markets and restaurants. The new home will be near Colorado Springs. I am excited and anxious for this new adventure so hopefully the idea of this interests you on some level.
To meet for coffee, dinner, or drinks somewhere that is quiet enough for conversation and be able to see if we have chemistry.