i am a single mother of 3 beautiful well behaved children,20,16,and 12. they have manners and respect for their elders.i am a package deal to love me you must love my children, they are my world. i am extremely spontaneous, i get an urge and just do it. I might feel like driving to santa monica just to walk on the pier, or the valencia to eat at claim jumpers so i do it. I love football, growing up in Chicago, the Bears is my team, good and bad, i have never been a bandwagoner. I love to go dancing but im not big on the whole club thing. I like a more reserved type environment when in public ( like blues, or jazz, or country music) I am looking for a man and not a man who acts like a boy, I want someone who is affectionate and really enjoys the company of the one they are with. i give everything i have when in a relationship it is always 50/50. I truly know how to keep my man happy and pleased.
I have always been independent, I dont need or want anything from anyone, I just think they should be able to give out of the kindness of their hearts without prejudice, I love surprises (flowers on Valentines Day delivered to work, or on my birthday), a wonderful bubble bath with a glass of wine when I come home from work, I work very hard and I love to be pampered, I want to be spoiled and loved, so if you are not spontaneous and affectionate do not waste my time.
I am a cancer survivor and can not have any children, I received a total hysterectomy in 2005, so if you think you want children look some where else.
I am looking for a man that can treat me the way I deserve to be treated, I want someone who wants me just as much as I will want them, my best friend and my lover.
My ideal first date is depending on if its football season, if so then hotwings and margaritas at chuys. but if not during the season then, a nice dinner with meat and potatos and dancing or a long walk on the beach or in a park. just enjoying one anothers company and trying to get to know each other. i also enjoy going to play blackjack at the casino (no habitual) for enjoyment purposes only.