Hi Ladies, first I am really straight forward and forthright as you can see how long my profile is, haha. What people see is what they get from me. That's how I came up with the headline The Real Deal, haha.
SECOND, WITH ALL DUE RESPECT, LADIES, THIS IS NOT JDATE OR BLACKPEOPLEMEET.COM.....SO DO NOT GET OFFENDED IF A GUY SEND YOU A MESSAGE AND HE DOES NOT MATCH A PARTICULAR RACIAL PREFERENCE. THERE IS SUCH A STATE OF BEING CALLED POLITENESS...IF YOU ARE POLITE AND RESPECTFULLY DIRECT ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IN A MAN ON A SITE THAT IS RACIALLY OPEN TO EVERYONE ....PEOPLE WILL USUALLY RESPECTFULLY UNDERSTAND.
PEOPLE WERE CREATED TO BE LOVED
THINGS WERE CREATED TO BE USED
THE REASON WHY THE WORLD IS IN CHAOS AND RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT LAST
IS BECAUSE THINGS ARE LOVED AND PEOPLE ARE BEING USED
JUST BE UPFRONT AND HONEST IN YOUR INTENTIONS IN WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. DO NOT USE AND MISLEAD PEOPLE, MALE OR FEMALE. YES.... I REALIZED I WAS USED BY A GIRL, AFTER IT WAS TOO LATE. SO I WOULD NEVER DO THAT TO SOMEONE ELSE. TO BE USED IS NOT A GOOD FEELING.
WELCOME TO MY PROFILE BEFORE YOU BEGIN PLEASE UNDERSTAND THAT JUST LIKE YOU GUYS ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A BOOTY CALL FROM MEN, I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A GIRL WHO USES THIS SITE FOR DATING MEN LIKE IT IS A HOBBIE. I HAVE HAD MY SHARE OF WASTING TIME WITH GIRLS ON THIS SITE AND NOTHING MEANINGFUL DEVELOPED.
IM NOT TRYING TO BE RUDE BUT IF I WANTED TO DATE CASUALLY I COULD PAY AN ESCORT FOR COMPANY AND TIME.
I AM NOT LOOKING TO GET MARRIED OR FALL IN LOVE RIGHT AWAY. I AM REALISTIC I UNDERSTAND DEVELOPING MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIPS TAKES TIME. WHAT I AM TRYING TO SAY IS DO NOT “LEAD A GUY ON”, KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP AND IF YOU'RE NOT SURE... GIVE A GUY THAT LIKES YOU A CHANCE TO MESS UP FIRST BEFORE YOU END IT WITHOUT TELLING HIM
I AM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO I AM ATTRACTED TO WHO CAN OFFER COMMUNICATION, TRUST, HONESTY, AND LOYALTY AND I WILL OFFER THE SAME QUALITIES IN RETURN.THESE ARE QUALITIES I LOOK FOR AN A WOMAN I am NOT looking to "HIT AND QUIT IT".
Now to my formal introduction, once again,Hi, Thank you for visiting my profile, I grew in New York City and I have lived in city for most of my life. I never had the opportunity to travel before high School. So after graduating high school, I decided to attend college in Ohio to experience something new. I graduated from The Ohio State University in December 2005 with a Bachelor of Arts degree. Two years after college, I also earned a certificate in Paralegal studies at a small college in New York call Mercy College in 2007. After receiving my paralegal certificate, I enlisted in the United States Marine Corps in 2007 and received an Honorable Discharge in 2011, thus completing my four years of active-duty service. I am currently working in the legal field. I love traveling. It is one of my two favorite hobbies, the other is working out. I enjoy going new places, meeting new people and being exposed to diverse cultures. Some places I have been include New York City, Melbourne, Australia, London, England, Los Angeles, San Diego, Denver, Orlando, Florida, even North Dakota twice.
1. GOAL IN LIFE: I WANT TO MAKE A POSTIVE DIFFERENCE IN THE LIVES OF OTHERS AND EVERYONE I KNOW.
2. MUSIC: I LIKE ANYTHING THAT HAS A BEAT I CAN DANCE TO OR MUSIC I CAN RELATE TO, OR MUSIC THAT TELLS A
GOOD STORY. SO YES LADIES... I AM A BLACK GUY WHO LIKES MUSIC FROM HIP HOP TO COUNTRY MUSIC.
4. MOVIES: I LOVE ALL TYPES FROM ALL KINDS OF ACTION/ADVENTURE MOVIES TO ROMATIC COMEDIES AS LONG AS ITS
I HAVE NOTICED FOR A LONG TIME, THROUGH BROWSING POF, THAT ALOT OF WOMEN ARE PICKY. THEIR PROFILES ARE LIKE A CHECKLIST FOR GUYS, SO I WANTED TO ANSWER THE QUESTION OF WHY I WOULD MAKE A GREAT CATCH.
I AM A GOOD CATCH BECAUSE......
I AM EDUCATED
I HAVE A JOB
THE REASON MY HEADLINE SAYS THE REAL DEAL IS BECAUSE WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU GET FROM ME. I AM HONEST, MY PIC ARE REAL
I AM MATURE
I DO NOT WANT TO PLAYS GAMES SO I WOULD NOT DO THAT TO YOU
I BELIEVE IN TREATING PEOPLE THE WAY YOU WOULD WANT THEM TO TREAT YOU.
SOME GUYS ARE REALLY SELF-CENTERED. I AM MORE THOUGHTFUL ABOUT THE FEELINGS OF OTHERS.
I PREFER MONOGAMY OVER TALKING TO MORE THE ONE GIRL
I WOULD NOT WANT ANY GIRL TO PLAY ME SO I WILL NOT PLAY YOU
I HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR; I AM OK WITH MAKING FUN OF MYSELF. FOR EXAMPLE, SOME GIRLS ON THIS SITE DO NOT DATE BLACK GUYS SO WHEN I AM BORED I LIKE TO PLAY A GAME CALLED HOW MANY GIRLS ON THIS SITE EXCLUDE BACK GUYS ON THEIR PROFILES. HAHAHAHA JUST FOR THE FUN. THE ONLY REASON I POINT THIS OUT IS I HAD ONE FEMALE LOOK VIEW MY PROFILE AND IT SAID "PLEASE DONT MESSEGE IF YOU ARE NOT WHITE BECAUSE WHITE IS RIGHT" HER DIRECT QUOTE....WOW...THAT ALL I COULD SAY. OR I SEE "NO BLACK GUYS" BUT I SEE COMMENTS LIKE THIS OFTEN. EVERYONE HAS A PREFERENCE, SO ALL I CAN DO IS ACCEPT IT AND MAKE SOME HUMOR OUT OF IT.
ALTHOUGH I AM BLACK MAN, PLEASE DO NOT MAKE ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT ME. I AM NOT INTO THAT THUG LIFESTYLE/50 CENT ATTITUDE...I WAS NOT RAISED TO ACT THAT WAY. I ALSO TAKE PRIDE IN BEING GENTLEMEN AND DRESSING AND ACTING LIKE ONE.
I DO NOT HAVE ANY KIDS YET. WITH THAT BEING SAID, I AM SECURE IN MY MANHOOD TO DATE A WOMAN WITH CHILDREN BECAUSE I WOULD NOT WANT A CLASSY AND EDUCATED LADY TO EXCLUDE DATING ME IF I HAD CHILDREN.
I am a very easy going person. I enjoy simple things in life and meeting new people because they bring new life experiences.
PLEASE DO NOT JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER, JUST BECAUSE I HAVE PICKS WITH ME SHOWING MY CHEST DOES NOT MEAN I AM NASTY OR CONCEITED, SOME WOMEN JUDGE MEN TOO QUICKLY WITHOUT READING WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY OR GET TO KNOW THEM. I AM INTO WORKING OUT AND HEALTH SO THATS WHY I HAVE THE PICS, WEIGHT TRAINING AND HEALTH AND WELLNESS IS A HOBBY AND I ADMIRE THE HUMAN BODY IN A HEALTHY FORM. I AM A VERY HUMBLE PERSON IF YOU KNOW ME.
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I am very flexible when it comes to first dates. I enjoy both going out to a club and dancing, sitting at a bar and chatting, or cooking for my date and spending a quiet night together watching a movie. my favorite first date idea however would involve something fun and entertaining that keeps weird and silent moments on a first date away, such as playing mini golf or learning a new hobby or skill. I AM A HUGE GOTHEM CITY ROLLER GIRLS SPORT FAN, SO IF YOU LIKE ROLLER DERBY... I AM YOUR GUY FOR A DATE.