I'm a good, kind-hearted guy. I can take a little time to warm up but give me time and it will be worth your while. I can be goofy and a little quirky. It makes life interesting. So if you're looking for a nice guy who's not just like everyone else then give me a shot.
Please know I'd like to meet someone from the immediate Rochester area--not Batavia, Albion, Canandaigua etc... Long distances do not work for me at all.
I would really like to find someone who is single or actually committed with going through with their divorce. "Separated" is a little too uncertain for me to take a chance on. I've been single awhile now and don't want to be taking a flier on someone who is still "testing the waters" hoping to find something better than what they already got. And this doesn't just mean not being married. It means not having a current boyfriend. Shouldn't have to spell that out but dang, there's some frickin' lying whackos on this site.
On a more positive note, I'm a dad and my kids are with me on weekdays. They always come first. I get some free time on most weekends and do like to make the most of that time. I like being creative and being around people who are creative.
I don't need someone to be there 24/7. I do enjoy my independence and having my own space. I would be cool to find someone who has their own life as well but enough free time that we can get together and foster a special connected relationship. While I don't anticipate cohabiting with anyone, I wouldn't necessarily rule it out somewhere down the road. I have learned to never say never but it would really have to be just the right person.
I am a Christian. My faith is extremely important to me. I respect and am curious about other religions though, as I tend to believe that God has revealed himself in different ways to different people.
I value honesty--saying what you mean and meaning what you say. Be real. Be who you say you are. No relationship can go anywhere if the two parties are not truthful from the getgo. I work very hard to be the best I can be. While I love sharing life with my kids, it would be so awesomely awesome to find that special grown up someone to share life's journey with as well.