If You Capture My Heart and My Imagination I'm A Sweetie But Please Don't Fence Me In!
Do you prefer to fill your life with a variety of friends and activities that keep you happy and fit? I do. I don't match up with any of your diva, homemaker, super mom, Barbie or conventional female stereotypes. But I am a cool woman in my own ways and great company. I love to play outside. You probably aren't a stereotypical guy either, but you know who you are, what you are about and are smart and capable on many levels. You prefer to be active over sedentary in your free time.
Smart, Sporty and Sometimes Sassy Woman Seeks Bright, Fit, Fun Man
My interests are legit. I hike, bike, dance, and sing and play music often. I am a long time sailor and ocean lover. My family went to the beach often, it's in my DNA. I would really like to use my tennis racket more frequently, I started playing as a kid and spent much of my 20's and 30's on the courts. I support local theater and live music venues, also enjoy art and other forms of creative expression. I love to explore new places and travel. I appreciate nature, kindness, green hills, the wind in my hair, the companionship of my friends, family and kitties, the joy of being in motion, fresh air, affection, massage, laughter, honesty, compassion, being both silly and serious, and creating good food, good times and great memories. I'm a native Californian and we don't hibernate in the winter. I even thrive in cool and cold temps.
Masculine Energy + Feminine Zing
I'm aiming for a well balanced life and am looking for someone who does the same. Someone who lives in the present, plans for the future and has learned from the past. By this time in our lives we've all had some negative experiences, but we know not to impose them on new people. We let new people who enter our lives do so on terms that are appropriate for how we mesh together based upon our similarities and differences. It is healthy to have some of both.
Happy trails and don't hesitate to send a message!
Meet and greets can be fun. Casual activities like walks, bike rides, or music help ease the tension as do informal settings. Fancier outings seem better suited to dates at some point after an initial in person meeting.