What? You expect me to own a car?? What kind of website is this? LOL I am looking to find someone that we can truly enjoy life together; meaning we connect on many levels. Laughter is a big part of my life (and if you have ability to banter--awesome!) and would love to find a partner who is diverse, intelligent, loves to travel and is curious about life. I thought this would be simple, but it's actually more challenging than I realized and I don't want to settle.
I travel to a different country every year in my quest to learn all I can while on this earth...studying cultures, history, lifestyles and just meeting some wonderful people along the way. During those travels, I've been fortunate to visit families in their homes, small towns in out of nowhere places, 5 star hotels, and hostels. Some of my best memories of travel are the ones I ended up with unexpected change of plans. I’ve travelled solo many times but prefer to travel with someone. Life’s just so much more fun when you have someone to explore the journey with, don’t you agree?
I also love adventure, so bring on the white water rafting , sky diving, zip lining through the jungles of Costa Rica, or going through ceremonies with a Shaman in Peru. But know that I live in the Silicon Valley where my day to day life is often work, needing to chill out with a book, or throwing a dinner party with friends that I actually relax with as I cook a meal for them.
Sports are fun when done together, so hiking, golf (I'm a hacker), tennis, yoga, and mountain biking (new to this but really like it!) are all part of my life. I also enjoy snow and water skiing but don’t get to them much. Oh…and did I mention I scuba dive? Well….certified but haven’t been in 2 yrs but would love to find someone to go with. Throw into the mix that I enjoy the arts- theatre, museums, dance, and music of all types.
I don’t have kids but open to a man that does have kids. I always wanted them but when I found myself still single at 40+ years, it wasn’t in the cards for me. I have been involved with an orphanage in Peru for the past several years and also volunteer at a local non-profit for kids 4-8th grades.
Having a positive attitude is a must!
OK…if you’ve kept up this far, I hope to hear from you! Oh, I am 51 and not 49. A friend told me initially to not put in my real age and I realized how silly that was. Unfortunately POF won't let me change it back.
I think the most important thing is we're both just ourselves, speak our truth and be who we are. I promise you that what you see is what you get. Ideally the first date would involve a venue allowing us to open up and spend time to find out if we want a second (third, fourth...) date. Coffee is fine but I'm open to more. The key, truly, is how comfortable you are in just being yourself!
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