This is not me... you can't see my eyes looking at you... you can't walk through a door I'm holding... smell my cologne or read my body language! This is just one add among thousands, it is mine I wrote it but it is just an add. When I say I'm dominant please don't read into it! I won't drip hot wax on you or choke you or spank you with anything other than my hand! I'm not into pain or bondage at all. What I mean is I will not spend my days explaining myself or negotiating my every move! You are either in or out in a relationship with me! Life is to short to play the blame games... I'm all about solutions and moving forward! State your case but do the work!
I'm a real person still holding out for a loving partner in this life. I own a house (a real house) on 5 acres, my vehicles are paid off, as are my toys... I love to play with my dogs (7 Labs) and to work in my big garden during the summer... the veggies are delicious! Started raising laying hens a couple years ago and the eggs are so much better than store bought but those girls get pretty demanding at feeding time! I'd say that my little spot out here is a oasis on the edge of the Great basin! I'm a life long outdoorsman very comfortable living out of a backpack for days or out of a RV by the lake. Suits from my last life in CA. still fit so I clean up sharp in a jiffy. Grew up doing construction, so I can build a house from the dirt up or fix any part of one... my tools fill 2 pickups and my brain is almost full too! My phone is not glued to my head so when we are together you have my attention... I never text... I don't do selfies or shirtless bathroom pics either. My reality is nothing like what I see on reality TV... I like nature, photography, camping, hunting, fishing, hiking, water skiing and am in great shape!
The woman I am waiting to meet and spend my fun time with... She would kind and friendly but knows her business and goes about it without the need to be cheared on for every little thing... she does the right thing because it is the right thing. She does not worship money or shoes which all go away in time! She loves baby critters and wants an honest man who guards her with his life! She sees what can be in critters, things and her man but knows that they all need her in their own ways at different times everyday. She loves the hundreds of little things her man does everyday to show her he loves everything about her. She loves her friends and family but they don't run her or her life and she would put them right back in their place if they tried to undercut or criticize her or her man. She is tough enough to say she wants my help even when it is just to make me feel needed and I love to feel needed. She always assumes the best of me and talks about everything when we have come together at the end of the day!I
I'd want to tell her it feels good to open the doors for her or drive her to town to see her in a dress or outfit she has been thinking about buying... holding her purse while she is in the dressing room. Trying not to laugh when a spider has her standing on the toilet pointing like it is a monster... is just another thing that makes me feel needed and loved! I'm very good at being a man but it is so much less without a kind strong woman to share this life with! She does not have issues with food and can control her intake! She would understand that I'm very visual and love it when my woman keeps herself in sexy shape not just because it drives me wild but because she plans on being fit and healthy for many years to come! She knows I'm not a good speller either but it is what I say that matters!
Kids... well I've dated even lived with a woman with kids! Coached under 14 girls softball even got asked to coach allstars which was fun. I love kids who still are kind and wonderful with tons of questions and say funny things. I miss those children much more than their mother! I'll wait to meet a woman's kids until I know that their mother and I will get along... kids don't understand adult relationships and over think things. Many of the things that become "drama" are common sense mistakes people make thinking that everything is under their control or that they can talk their way past. I stick to my code and a pretty face and some sweet girly parts aren't going to change my mind about the important stuff!
Walkin', Talkin', Eatin', Drinkin', Smilin', Laughin', Keeping it pretty simple and lighthearted! No "Job interveiws" please!