Experience breeds confidence and I have tons of confidence because of my experience! Please don't assume you can call me arrogant and not be full of crap! I'm not here trying to sell siding... this is my spot to say my piece! I don't know how to type my story without shallow people trying to put some label on me. Sure I've had success in my life but is only because I've tried, practiced and failed at most of the things I love to do. My confidence comes from learning how to throw out the runner at second from my knees as a 12 yr old catcher in baseball, spending the weekend in a snowcave we built as 12yr old boy scouts, learning to ski and going 20+ times in one year with high school ski club, learning to surf around Santa Cruz CA, learning to barefoot water ski at 45mph in the delta, learning to hunt I got my first buck at 14, trained my first hunting retriever at 19, issued my fisrt company truck at 22, ran my first crew the same year! I got up early and did the work by myself, sure there were coaches and teachers and some good bosses but in my day they made you earn it! I ran countless laps and tons of pushups for screwing around at practice! Became expert with a shovel as I proved to my journeyman that I wanted to be taught the electrical trade, I was hazed for years! I learned how to be a good construction electrician because I was motivated by money but my DNA and a ton of try helped me at the other things. My parent did not drive me to school or practice or work! They never once sent me to a baseball clinic or paid for tutoring and I have never been on a guided hunt! I have killed a six point bull elk on public land and packed that 800 pound animal out in several trips with a hunting buddy! So when women who date "metro men" call me arrogant I smile or even laugh out loud! I know the work I put into the things I love and am very good at... arrogant my ass!
The woman I am waiting to meet and spend my life with is probably not on this site... maybe you know her though! She is kind and friendly but knows her business and goes about it without the need to be cheared on for every little thing... she does the right thing because it is the right thing. She does not worship money or shoes which all go away in time! She loves baby critters and wants an honest man who guards her with his life but would never tell her what to do! She sees what can be in critters, things and her man but knows that they all need her in their own ways at different times everyday. She loves the hundreds of little things her man does everyday to show her he loves everything about her. She loves her friends and family but they don't run her or her life and she would put them right back in their place if they tried to undercut or criticize her or her man. She is tough enough to say she wants my help even when it is just to make me feel needed and I love to feel needed. She always assumes the best of me and talks about everything when we have come together at night! If you know who I'm talking about please get us connected!
Tell her it feels good to open the doors for her or drive her to town to see her in a dress or outfit she has been thinking about buying... holding her purse while she is in the dressing room. Trying not to laugh when a spider has her standing on the toilet pointing like it is a monster... is just another thing that makes me feel needed and loved! I'm very good at being a man but it is so much less without a kind strong woman to share this life with! She does not have issues with food and can control her intake! She would understand that I'm very visual and love it when my woman keeps herself in sexy shape not just because it drives me wild but because she plans on being fit and healthy for many years to come! She knows I'm not a good speller either but it is what I say that matters!
I have never been desperate so I'll wait till the woman of my dreams comes along... I'll have fun and be social with friends and aquaintances. I'm not an addict. I don't drink beer everyday, never got a DUI. I'm not a sports fan, never play video games. I am sure you could find fault in me if that is your thing! Over the years sex has become more meaningful to me and if I'm not feeling the love... I say "no thanks"! I've waited this long to find a woman that is good for me because I'm done with the ones who just take and take and take only to complain when I stop giving! Please be the person you want to date, if you expect a man to have money but you only have dept? Well, what does that make you?
Ok ok I get it I left out my day to day stuff and got kicked in the junk for it LOL! I rarely miss the trash man... even without being told once! I shower everyday even twice on some days! My teeth brush is used twice a day. I do find clothes in the dryer everytime I go to put wet ones in but I clean the lint thing out everytime. I do dishes a few times a week. I feed the critters twice a day. I know my house is not as clean as most women would like and my Mom lets me know whenever she visits but my priorities lay elsewhere. I'm a single man taking care of myself and my critters on 5 acres so I'm spread thin! My boots are dirty too!
Kids... well I've dated a woman with kids! Coached under 14 girls softball even got asked to coach allstars which was fun. I love kids who still are kind and wonderful with tons of questions and say funny things. I miss those children much more than their mother! I'll wait to meet a woman's kids until I know that their mother and I will get along... kids don't understand adult relationships and over think things. Many of the things that become "drama" are common sense mistakes people make thinking that everything is under their control or that they can talk their way past. I stick to my code and a pretty face and some sweet girly parts aren't going to change my mind!
Walkin', Talkin', Eatin', Drinkin', Smilin', Laughin', Keeping it pretty simple and lighthearted! No "Job interveiws" please!