I am someone who is at a place in their life where I want to find that Special Someone to be with. I'm not into random dating or one night stands, I just want to meet a really nice guy who might be interested in me for who I am. I like to think that I'm a good listener, and someone who is trustworthy and kind. I don't mind going out of my way for another person, as long as I can count on them to do the same. I usually come off a bit shy and reserved around new people, but I definitely have a witty/feisty side that emerges once I get to know someone.
I enjoy reading, watching movies, role-playing games (Table-top or video), sci-fi, listening to music, and good conversation on just about any topic you can think of. I am really not into clubs (The music is great though) or bars, but I do like to go out and do things with friends. I consider myself low maintenance as far as relationships go, and I would say that I am a fairly independent person. My goal for any relationship would be to share someone's life with them, make it better if I'm able, but not completely take it over or change what they already have.
I'm looking for a guy who is reasonably sure about who he is and who he wants to be. I prefer someone who does not smoke, and is somewhat masculine. Being able to hold a great conversation or debate is also a plus with me. Everything else, I tend to take on a case by case basis. I like to think that if a special connection is there when I meet someone then I will know it.