It would be really nice to meet someone who likes to go camping. My newest obsession is vintage trailers. Want to help me restore one? LOL.
I am recently divorced after 21 years of marriage. Wondering if there are any nice guys out there who are honest, able to communicate, willing to give--besides receive, and not looking for perfection! I have tried the online dating scene before and decided to give it another go.
Beginning this new chapter in my life has been very interesting. I am learning a lot about myself and others. I am narrowing down what I really want and need. Currently my focus is on improving myself physically, emotionally and spiritually. I am very easy going, and down to earth. Classy, but not high maintenance.
What am I really looking for? A man of integrity…especially honesty! (I’ve been lied to way too much!) A great friend who I can share my life with—and yes, all the drama too…(we all have drama whether you like it or not!) Someone who I can be myself around…someone I am very attracted to, (chemistry-high importance-obviously!) who wants to be treated like a king! Someone who not only likes to receive, but who can give back too. He must be available emotionally, physically and financially! Steady income is very important, guys! He has to be able to make me laugh…
I tend to look for men who are taller than me. I am 5’8" and usually don’t wear heels.
I am not looking for someone to take care of me financially, and I cannot take care of someone else financially. That is a big turn off. I can’t be your mommy.
My guy has to absolutely LOVE kids and animals. Being on the same page when it comes to child rearing, beliefs, and life goals is very important.
I love fancy restaurants, but I love backyard BBQ’s just as much. I am most comfortable in jeans and flip flops. My idea of a perfect romantic evening is cuddling on the couch, in front of a fire, with a bottle of wine, candles, a movie and…whatever comes next.
I like to be active...I can't be a homebody all the time...NO couch potatoes please!!!
Even if it is just a walk around the block or an all day hike, California is too beautiful to stay indoors!
I love to receive text msgs, and e-mails. Communication is very important, and in this day and age, it's pretty easy to let someone know you are thinking about them! I check my e-mail every day and try my best to answer right away....please don't be shy!!
Thanks for reading...Good luck with your search!
***If I don't respond to your message, I am just not interesred. Sorry, but I know what I am looking for....no offense!
PS. Please don't contact me if you live too far away to visit Palmdale. I live in Quartz Hill. Although I never wanted to live out here (Born and raised a "Valley Girl" and had to move back to Cali from AZ almost two years ago) I actually love it here---NO SMOG, not as much traffic as "down below" and the desert is my backyard. I love the clean air, the beautiful sunrises and sunsets and the beach is only an hour and a half away.
***Thought this was very true!
A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, 'What are you thinking?' She doesn't care what you think. If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting. Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant.. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it. Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated. Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her. Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress. Ladies, I apologize.
For all those men who say, 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?', here's an update for you.. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage. Why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage!
After chatting, talking on the phone and feeling like we may click, a short get together at a coffee house, is ideal. If we don't feel any chemistry after that, maybe we can still be friends. If we do feel the connection, we can figure out what to do next!