lightningseed: Happiness is not a fish.
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Erie, Pennsylvania
31 year old Male, 5' 10" (178cm), Non-religious
Caucasian Taurus with Brown
lightningseed is looking for a relationship.
Bachelors degree

Finally feel like Im back on my feet.

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets Other Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 1 year How ambitious are you? Ambitious

About Aaron
I've been on this website for a while now. I'm here because things aren't particularly stellar in the relationship department for me. People received the wrong impression from my last profile, and seemed only capable of honing in on one or two particular parts of it. They widely disregarded the message I was trying to get across and subsequently were unable to grasp the kind of person I am.

This time around I'm going to try something different. I'm going to talk about the expectations other people have and why I'll never live up to them along with other musings. Below is a list of "headlines" that women use on this website that I thought were interesting. I'll list the headline and offer my comments below each one.

1) Looking for an honest guy.
I'm going to be "honest" with you. I'm a liar. Anyone who tells you they've been honest their whole life is a liar. If you find someone who says they're completely "honest" you might be better off regarding this person with suspicion rather than asking them on a date.

2)Looking for a serious guy.
You have got to be kidding me!

3)Looking for a good guy, Mr. Right, nice guy.
Might as well rephrase to looking for all the guys who finish last. Where does this idealistic Mr. Right stuff come from anyway? I'm not looking for Ms. Right unless that is your last name, and you're hot. In that case I'll make an exception.

4)Looking for something different.
"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result." (Albert Einstein)

5)Tired of games.
Most games are fun. The wrong kind of games aren't. :D Maybe you are looking for a "serious" guy. If so See #2!

6)Looking for friends maybe more.
Throwing a guy in the "friend-zone" before you ever met them basically tells me that I have NO CHANCE. I'm fine with that as those are probably my chances as it stands.

7)The one.
We know you're talking about the guy from the Matrix, and it's probably not going to happen.

8) Looking for a real guy.
What girl is looking for a "fake" guy? If by real you mean "existential" then I meet that criteria, but so does every other guy on the planet. If by real you mean "not merely ostensible" then I'm good there too. The problem here being with the word "real" and what people define it as. This could mean a litany of things that I'm probably not.

9)Looking for someone special.
More vague wording that could mean a litany of things that I'm probably not.

10)Why does dating have to be so hard.
It's as hard as you make it. Everything is as hard as you make it.

Here are some more, but they belong in a category all their own.

1)Looking for a daddy for my babies.
Who would sign up for this? It's cool that you want your children to have a father, but that isn't how things work. People are primarily looking for their partner on this website. The father thing might come along later.

2)Save a tree eat a beaver.
This is really self explanatory, and kind of amusing. Unfortunately it's just that.

3)Come find me.
It's like where's Waldo! Only you're not wearing striped pajamas and probably suck.

4)Looking for the future.
What the hell is this supposed to mean? The future becomes the present which becomes the past. You shouldn't be looking for something that is a given.

5)It is what it is
And it is not what it is not.
It is not what it was not.
Is what it was.
Is what it should be.
Is not what it shouldn't be.
It is also an overused sports cliche.

6)WTF is wrong with people?
I'm asking myself the same question.

Don't contact me if:

1. You have a picture of yourself with the toilette in the background. Would you message me if I had pic of myself lifting my shirt up exposing my belly in front of a crap filled toilette? Furthermore, would you find this attractive?

2. If you're too lazy to upload a picture of yourself. It's not that hard, and isn't too much to ask. If you leave it up to my imagination you're going to look like the south end of a northbound bear.

3. If you're only capable of carrying on a one way conversation. If I was interested in a one way conversation I would just go talk to a wall.


First Date
I'm pretty much open to anything.