Do you know that feeling when you're absolutely real with some one? Some one you can relax and enjoy life with. Some one who is fun to come home to, who your thrilled to see every day. That's what I'm looking for. And some one who listens to you and asks interesting questions, as a friend and lover... (not some one who hogs the air space ha!) because life is meant to be shared and love works best when you understand each other..
You're still a bit boyishly playful as well as kind, gentle, compassionate, educated, and cultured. You're engaged with the world. A man loyal to what you love, you might be successful with a conscience and hoping to make the world a better place.
You're not afraid of a deeply caring relationship with a secure, happy, loving, compassionate, kind and intelligent woman who is hoping to be real with you.
You're ready for a mate you can respect and grow together with and wondering what it would be like with her at your side.
You're kind of like me... a good listener (notice a theme here?), an old soul, and treat others as you would like to be treated. You're romantic and can be both left-brained and right-brained, social and intimate. You don't mind attending benefits or dinner parties with friends, traveling to new places, trying exotic foods, exploring the city and rural little towns, making new friends, volunteering for a cause, beach campfires and theater, and kissing in the rain.
You're younger than 52, and taller than 5'9".
Sometimes people tell you that you're "too good" or "too caring" or "have too much conscience" for this world. You're not. You just haven't found your match.
Let's start with one good conversation (in person, not over the phone) and possibly let it lead to more.
I'd love to hear from you.
Oh yes, I'm supposed to talk about my hobbies... enjoying the beach out here, swimming, reading, going to artsy events, readings, plays, etc. exploring New York City and all of its cultural wonders, book nooks, shops and dining places, going to festivals, interesting lectures, neuroscience, psychology, plays and theater, dinner parties, hiking places that are naturally beautiful, engaging conversation, coffeehouse poetry, international and national travel, volunteering... and exploring the things on your list too. Sorry, but I don't ski :)
My brother tells me I radiate love and joy like a cell phone. I'm not sure if that's good or bad, but I'm lucky enough to have surplus of it, so why not share it? I'm learning it's the moments we truly connect with people that make a difference in our lives.
Are you hoping to live life to the fullest and make a positive difference with a best friend and lady at your side? You just may have met your match.
About Me: I'm a writer who loves to learn, laugh, and somehow make the world a little bit better when I can. Sometimes I'm lucky enough to have a front row seat to the more interesting and beautiful things in life.
During my down time, I'm a deeply caring, loving person who loves to be adventurous, somewhat spontaneous and travel and enjoy life... with the occasional night in under warm blankets and day of volunteering.
I'm as much at ease in my little black dress as I am in my t-shirt and blue jeans and I love to wear both. Camping or Broadway...charity ball or tiny Indian cafe... I'm loving it.
I love hot, humid silvery full-moon nights that make you want to stay up all night long -- when your skin is the temperature of the air and the world seems unreal. I love the smell of roses at midnight. I love the romance of street musicians and lingering over a good wine, tiny theaters with great plays, slow dancing to soft music.
I'm also a good listener who genuinely engages in conversation, and, to be honest, I'm looking for the same for some good, 2-way conversation. I want some one with whom I can relax and be real with.
Disclaimer: I have to admit, I don't really like to email back and forth much or talk on the phone before we meet. It's much more interesting to me to meet a person face-to-face for the first time, instead of chatting away a life story before a meet. Call me a romantic. I'm willing to gamble a few hours on a meet, and I hope you would be too. Besides, that's when the real chemistry happens, right?
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