IM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MOST WONDERFUL WOMAN AND NOT LOOKING!!!!!!!!!!!! POF WONT LET ME DELETE THIS PROFILE i'm not really judgmental, I guess at times I feel like Tristan from legends of the fall, sometimes a bit wild and untamed, artist heart and skill, passionate about life, There's a line from the movie Gataca, that sticks out where he says" I never kept anything for the swim back! I feel like that at times. I think the truest measure of a man, is his willingness to lay down his life for his family and friends..... to find beauty in small things, to promote and practice random acts of coolness. to be both strong and flexible and tender. to have faith and action.