Age: 35
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Age: 36
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1lotus: looking for good hearted man...
Non-smoker with undisclosed body type
Toronto, Ontario
41 year old Woman, < 5' (< 152 cm), Sikh
Indian Libra with Black hair
1lotus Actively seeking a relationship
Bachelors degree

I am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Prefer not to say Do you want children? No
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 3 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious

About Me
Hi There. I'm going to lay my cards on the table, so there are no misunderstandings. I had polio when i was 1yrs old, and had several corrective surgeries during childhood. I still walk with a limp, so I carry a cane. I went back to India to get married when I was 26. I got used as a free ride to Canada. When the guy found out I was pregnant, he left. I have a lovely 13yr old son, who is the most important thing in my life. I was quite sick for a number of years after I had my son. I broke the bad leg some years years ago, which left me in a wheelchair for several months. That caused numerous other problems. Lets just say, emotionally, I was overwhelmed also. Although, I'm ok now, for the most part, I still have problems with pain. Officially, I'm a new Hire Trainer for a financial organization, but have been off for some time on sick leave. Now, about ME... I think with all this turmoil of my life, I've gotten lost somewhere. I used to love music with a passion(old Indian music: 70s and 80s especially). I hardly listen to any music anymore. I used to be quite outgoing, and had loads of friends. I hardly go out and have very limited friends now. My main objective in life now is to raise my son to be a good person. But I realize that he's not going to be with me forever. And loneliness is a bad disease. So here I am, in hopes that I may find a companion to share my life with. A person who can understand all that I've been through and accept who I am. A person who can help me find ME again.

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