Hi There. I'm going to lay my cards on the table, so there are no misunderstandings. I had polio when i was 1yrs old, and had several corrective surgeries during childhood. I still walk with a limp, so I carry a cane. I went back to India to get married when I was 26. I got used as a free ride to Canada. When the guy found out I was pregnant, he left. I have a lovely 10yr old son, who is the most important thing in my life. I was quite sick for a number of years after I had my son. I broke the bad leg some years years ago, which left me in a wheelchair for several months. That caused numerous other problems. Lets just say, emotionally, I was overwhelmed also. Although, I'm ok now, for the most part, I still have problems with pain. Officially, I'm a new Hire Trainer for a financial organization, but have been off for some time on sick leave. Now, about ME... I think with all this turmoil of my life, I've gotten lost somewhere. I used to love music with a passion(old Indian music: 70s and 80s especially). I hardly listen to any music anymore. I used to be quite outgoing, and had loads of friends. I hardly go out and have very limited friends now. I've learned that when times are good, everyone is your next best friend, but when you're going through a rough time, everyone seems to disappear. My main objective in life now is to raise my son to be a good person. But I realize that he's not going to be with me forever. And loneliness is a bad disease. So here I am, in hopes that I may find a companion to share my life with. A person who can understand all that I've been through and accept who I am. A person who can help me find ME again.