So about me, I'm super funny (I'm sure every guy on here says that, but I actually really am), very sarcastic, and love to joke around and not take things too seriously. This is a mandatory quality you need to possess also, I respect a quick wit and someone who can joke back and who is not easily offended. I am a very down to earth person and don't do drama or games, not interested in anything like that.
My family is very important to me, my parents are still married and I still hang out with my brother's and sister when I get the chance. I have a college degree and an established career and I actually like my job which I think is hard to come by sometimes. I also own a home which I bought when I was in my early 20's.
I am very much into music, it's probably my biggest passion in life, listening and playing. I have been playing the guitar since my teens and that is still my favorite hobby (can you sing??!). I also play the drums and slappa da bass sometimes. Do you play any instruments? Let's start a band!
I try to stay active and in shape and I would like the person I'm with to be an active type person and keep themselves in good general fitness and in good health. I am on the thin side due to genetics I guess, so if you like dudes with huge muscles that have their own muscles that's probably never gonna happen without steroids lol. The upside is I will never be a fatty, so that's pretty sweet right?
I am divorced and have one son from the marriage, I have 50% custody of him. I am not looking for a mother for my son, I am a very capable and involved Dad so no worries there. In fact you would probably not meet him unless things progressed to a certain level. But you should be cool with kids, since I have an awesome one :)
I am honest and have a good moral compass. Finding someone I can trust is very important to me. I have a good head on my shoulders and I've been through enough to know how to compromise and I'm realistic about the fact that it takes hard work and constant (good) communication to keep a relationship going in the right direction. I am not a tool, or a d-bag, so if you are into those types of guys we would not get along anyway.
BUT, if you survived one of the longer profiles on POF and if you like to laugh a lot and are looking for someone who is fun to hang out with and who is *real* - drop me a note (or reply to mine!)
P.S. - I am also a Professional Cuddler... ;)