So I've decided to rebuild my profile. I'll first start with this request: I am not desperate by any means,I intend on using this website as a dating tool.Between work and going to the gym, and taking care of what I need to at home I have very little time during the week for socializing. In terms of the weekend all of my friends are married and I'll be damned if I'm that single guy at the club. I plan on finding and meeting people, then getting to know them in an actual social situation such as getting coffee, dinner, drinks, or even something simple as mini golf. If you're here because you want to see who's out there or bored or whatever the case is, fine, but please pass me by. This is a dating website and I plan on using it for dating. Seems like most people miss that obviously point.
As for myself? Honestly, I'm at a loss why I'm single at 34. I've got a fantastic job and I make plenty so I can support myself and still live comfortably. I live in Centerville and working in Dayton. I just bought a new car which is very nice, I plan on saving up so I can buy a house soon. Until that happens I've got a great apartment without any room mates, just three house plants (one that's trying to die on me but I won't let it.) I went and graduated from Ohio State University and love cheering them on during football season. I don't do drugs, I go out occasionally on the weekend but it's never an issue, I'd just as rather stay home. I don't have the party gene that makes me want to go out every weekend. That being said I do have a spirit of adventure, I love random road trips or going out hiking, visiting a random festival or museum. I've been told that I am one of the funniest people you'll ever meet. I can be warm and happy but also sarcastic and cynical. You will never be bored around me. I'm sweet, caring, and romantic... In the end all I want to do is find my best friend and soul mate. I'm not a push over by any means, I stand up for what's right, I'm a natural leader and fight to the end for the ones I care for. I'm my own type of person, I'm not a country boy or bad boy (I mean, really?) I work out 5-6 days a week and I do try to take care of myself. I diet all the time. I am big man, not fat, just big. I used to be fat but I've turned alot of that into muscle (I was actually hoping to go smaller but I just changed shape, but looks good now.) That being said I don't have .009 percent body fat, I enjoy cooking and my cooking isn't always healthy :) We can all understand body issues, I'm just being up front with mine. I'm comfortable with who I am. I'm not perfect, I can be moody, be short, or just be aloof. That being said I do believe my good points weigh out the negative ones. I love to travel, I'm a secret nerd, and every day I see as on opportunity as a chance to make my life better. Whether that's by working out and planning something different with my life I embrace it. I'm ambitious and I feel like a shark sometimes, constantly moving, never stopping.
What am I looking for? Someone who completes me... (j/k) but that's not too far off. I want a partner, friend, lover, and someone I just can't live without. I want someone who wants to do something with their life, someone who doesn't mind staying home but wants to also go on adventures with me. Someone who has a fantastic sense of humor.
One last things as well, I do not have any children. I do want my own family, it doesn't have to be tomorrow, but I don't want to be playing catch when I'm 60 either. I have no problems dating someone with children as along as there's no drama with the ex-man.
Lastly,I have profiles on this, match, and another dating site so if you're a member of those and see the same thing,I apologize, this is essentially me pouring my heart out but I'm a very approachable person with nothing to hide. Want my number? sure, add me on facebook? Sounds good. If you're interested then lets give this a shot.