A man walks into
a small, out of the way restaurant
a Sunday morning flea market
a grocery store
a movie theater
a hiking trail in the woods
Carnegie Science Center
a Renaissance festival
a venue with a great band
with a kind, beautiful woman at his side. The pair hold hands, and their playfulness makes it apparent that they connect not only as lovers, but as really great friends. Their desire to spend time with one another shows in the smiles, the glances, and the conversation they exchange. They have their own lives, friends and interests, yet they cherish the company of one another and the blending of their lives. They are not flashy, don't wish to draw attention, not putting on a show for others. They are just themselves. We should be them.....
Attraction is fickle and unpredictable, so ....
What's a guy gotta do, when he isn't Brad Pitt handsome (yet, I'm surely not Quasimodo), doesn't have Bill Gates' income (I do own my home, and have a respectable occupation), but let me ask:
Would you like to meet a guy who is a good neighbor, who helps out whenever, and wherever he can? A kind, chivalrous man, who likes himself and others, smiles and says "hello" often? A guy who looks behind himself when he enters a building, and holds the door open for a stranger coming next...
...an articulate sort who dozen knead spell czech?
How about a guy who has never cared for mean people, who does NOT play games.. he LIVES by the golden rule ~ ALWAYS treat others as he'd want to be treated!
Do you seek a healthy, active, energetic, motivated man who exercises (daily), who won't be found lying on the couch with a remote control in hand? You'll find no beer-belly on this guy! (and despite being slender, is athletic and muscular) Looking for an outdoors, ecologically responsible guy....one who flosses and brushes regularly? A guy who is able to cook, and likes to? One who is creative, handy fixing things, likes yard work and building things?
Would you like to meet a man with an appreciation for music who'd love to learn to dance Ballroom with you and is currently taking Zumba / Salsa classes and loves it? A guy who'll go shopping with you if you want him to, visit the museum or a play and be as "wowed" about it as you are? Are you looking for a one-woman man who will not settle for, and truly is hoping to meet the love of his life...? In the meantime ~ Ain't Misbehavin!! And I mean that.
Still reading? Great!! May I introduce me to you?!
I am a morning person who prefers not to drag a blade across my face every day, so I've got a neatly trimmed beard (that may tickle you if we kiss..) I stop sometimes just to gaze, and wonder at things, due to an inherent need to know how and why things work as they do - always eager to learn. Being fit and healthy is very imprortant to me. I'm very active, yet I do like to get lost in a great book and I read every single day and night.
I am a man whose television wishes someone else owned it, 'cause its seriously neglected (with the exception of Penguins hockey!!)
A guy whose 'fridge always has more healthy food than beer in it. A man who'd rather take a lazy Harley putt on a backroad, appreciating all there is to see, to feel, and to experience with all of the senses rather than blast down a highway in a blur. (I've been riding motorcycles for nearly 40 years, ride safely and with caution). Please let me clarify that though I enjoy riding immensely, there is SOOO much more to me...(see interests above). I am genuine, do not pretend to be anything or anyone I am not. I work quite hard at staying in good, toned shape, and appreciate a woman who does the same. I find that I have always been attracted to slender women. That's not shallow, it's just how I'm wired. Kind, caring, and thoughtful, I am a man who will appreciate you for who you are.
Being single has it's advantages of course...I can drink right from the orange juice bottle, and I'm able to listen to music as loudly or as softly as I'd like, at any time. There's no line to get into the bathroom, I can go to bed whenever I want to, and I don't complain to myself when I serve leftovers again! (though it is hard to be surprised when I pack my own lunch...) Nobody cares if I dart through the house bare after a shower (oh, c'mon, you do it too, and the blinds are drawn, no worries!!), I've got all the cupboard and closet space a man can use....yet, I'd be so pleased to meet the right woman to share all of life's pleasures (and yes, disappointments, that's where we're there to comfort and strengthen each other).
We are all 'works in progress,' each of us choosing to either accept who we are as the finished product, or continue to grow and improve. I am a man who admits to his mistakes, and learns from them. I will honestly look into the deep, dark truthful mirror without bias, and continue to work on myself, to become a better person today than yesterday. Being the proud father of beautiful, college-age identical twin daughters, I am respectful of women.
I hope to meet a real, genuine, energetic, adventurous lady... a one-man woman. I read in one woman's profile that she'd like to meet a man's man who is also in touch with his feminine side. Just the same, I'd be thrilled to meet an attractive tomboy-type woman who is also a lady.
If you prefer adjectives, I might be described as:
Honest, happy, positive, energetic, enthusiastic, loyal, romantic, genuine, intelligent, silly, creative, hard-working, adventurous, clever, fit, passionate, affectionate.. But wait, ~ those are the ones most everyone uses...
I am imperfect, chivalrous, patient, truthful, optomistic, kind, A BIT SILLY, respectful, monogamous, cautious, toned, adaptable, sensible, empathetic