The following is directly quoted from a book that I've been reading and re-reading and highly recommend (Buddhist Boot Camp) and says exactly what I believe and bit more about who I am.
"What a healthy relationship looks like....
Relationships are often misunderstood to be a simple commitment between two people; a dedication to each other with a sense of belonging to one another. Unfortunately, that kind of limited perspective breeds expectations, possessiveness and disappointment, and it reeks of ownership, greed, ignorance, and selfish desire.
A healthy relationship is an agreement between two people to support each other's spiritual practice. It is a vow to encourage each other's dedication, devotion and path, free from attachment or expectations (yet full of caring and compassion). A healthy relationship is based on unconditional love, not one where your need is to possess. Although you put plenty of "heart" into it, you lose nothing by giving it away. If each person is equally dedicated to inspire, create, awaken and enrich the lives of others, then there is no hidden agenda. It is far less important what one receives from the other as what one can give. Intimacy would suddenly surpass warmth and tenderness to also include patience, vulnerability, honesty, active listening, understanding, connection, and unwavering trust.
There is a healing power inherent in this kind of union, and it is capable of deep transformation for both people. It is an incredible opportunity to actually practice what you learn (from non-violent communication to meditation, listening, mirroring, authenticity, resolve, radical honesty, appreciation, purpose, equality, celebration, and mutuality). A healthy relationship is a collaboration of sorts: two peaceful warriors spiritually supporting one another on their individual journeys to spread positivity and light.
May we all close the gap between what we believe and how we act in the world".
I enjoy a variety of interests and I am looking for someone who is open to new adventures, who is a free spirit and open minded. A great sense of humor is a must. I am honest, confident and tolerant and choose to find the bright side. By nature I am curious and playful. I am a youthful 61y.o.! I am a positive, enthusiastic person. passionate about life and humanity and have a playful and silly side. I’m drawn to positive people. My glass is more than half full. I believe there is always something to be truly happy about. If you believe that life is an adventure and it can be whatever you make of it, I’d like to get to know you and share some very special moments! I’m at my best when I’m with someone who loves to laugh and have fun, who can be open enough to communicate their needs wants and desires. Someone willing to share a physical, emotional and spiritual connection is important to me. To be perfectly clear, I am looking for my last first date.
Life is short and you never know about tomorrow, so if you want to live life "like there is no tomorrow" let's talk about it.